What happens when you realize the version of yourself that loved so hard… was also losing yourself? In this episode, we open up about power struggles in relationships, attachment vs. real love, and the healing that only happens when you finally stop people-pleasing.

Have you ever looked back and realized… you weren’t in love — you were just afraid of being alone? We’ve been there too. And in this two-part conversation, we share the messy, beautiful, and necessary truths that helped us grow into the people we are now.

Part 1 is just the beginning.

What happens when passion meets precision, and artistry meets advocacy? In this electrifying episode, we sit down with the incomparable Mercedes — an award-winning fight and intimacy director who's redefining what it means to move with intention, power, and care.

Mercedes takes us behind the scenes of her unconventional journey: from choreographing conflict and connection on stage to launching her own company, The Gentle Blade — a revolutionary space for consent-driven creative work. We celebrate her recent Thea Award win in Canada, unpack the magic behind her rise in the industry, and get raw about the road less traveled that brought her here.

Whether you’re a creative, a dreamer, or simply someone craving inspiration, Mercedes drops golden nuggets you won’t want to miss.

🎧 Tune in for a powerful conversation full of fire, heart, and unapologetic brilliance.

In this deeply personal episode, the hosts open up about the quiet but lasting impact of witnessing their parents argue while growing up. Even without constant conflict or divorce, those moments of tension left emotional imprints, shaping how they viewed safety, communication, and themselves during their tween and teen years.

They reflect on how these experiences, often minimized or brushed off, created internalized stress and confusion that still surfaces today. The conversation expands to explore how divorce and parental conflict affect young people differently, especially when they're old enough to understand what's happening, but too young to process it in a healthy way.

The hosts also share the coping mechanisms they developed to escape reality — from perfectionism to humor to creative expression — and how those habits helped them survive, but also masked the deeper healing they truly needed.

This honest discussion is about the invisible weight kids carry, and how revisiting those moments can be the first step toward healing.