Making decisions that are 100% personal isn’t selfish - it’s necessary. In this episode, I unpack what it looks like to live, choose, and show up as the woman you’re becoming, with a bit of over-explaining, unhinged stories, and letting go of other people’s narratives.

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In this episode of But What Would I Know?, Ayla dives headfirst into the wild, weird, and sometimes wonderful world of modern dating—where emotional labour is high, effort is low, and apparently, “Hi gorgeous” still passes for an opening line.

From low-effort messages and ghosting to emotional freeloaders and men who want their egos stroked more than their souls—Ayla breaks it all down with unfiltered honesty, personal stories, and just enough sass to get you through your next unmatched moment.

Includes:

💬 The iconic “Pick Two” policy

📍 A real-life sea-swim ghosting saga

📥 A listener story with big Harry energy

❓ Q&A on red flags & dating app burnout

🔥 Empowering reminders for women navigating the chaos

It’s honest. It’s hilarious. And it might just make you delete the apps—again.

In this episode, we’re rewriting the script. No more waiting to be picked, no more shrinking to fit, no more mistaking self-sacrifice for love. From solo getaways to solo healing, Ayla dives into what it really means to back yourself when no one else does.

This one’s for the women reclaiming the plot — and making it their own.