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In this episode, I share something deeply personal — not just mine, but something I hear in the unspoken fears and late-night confessions of women and non-binary leaders in tech. This is the story so many of us carry but rarely say out loud.

You’ll hear an AI voice narrate a monologue generated by Claude AI, written from the perspective of someone who’s spent decades succeeding in male-dominated STEM environments — someone who’s mastered emotional labor, navigated unspoken bias, and is quietly wondering how much longer she can keep going like this.

It’s startling in its accuracy. Brutal in its honesty. And if you hear yourself in it, know this: you’re not alone.

This story is:

• For the woman who gets praised for grace under pressure while screaming inside.
• For the leader who’s afraid that healing means losing her edge.
• For the high-achiever wondering if her brokenness is part of her brilliance — and if letting go of that pain might make her ordinary.

After the story, I come back to offer my perspective — not as a voice of authority, but as someone who’s lived this too. I talk about what it means to build sustainable, values-aligned leadership without losing the depth, fire, and edge that make you powerful.

This is more than a podcast episode. It’s a mirror. And maybe, just maybe, it’s your permission slip to stop surviving and start becoming who you were always meant to be.

If this resonates, book your clarity call at BefriendingDragons.com.
You don’t need to be “ready.” You just need to be honest.

Content warning: Topics include burnout, identity-based stress, internalized self-doubt, trauma-informed leadership, and systems of oppression. Listener discretion advised if you’re in a vulnerable emotional state.

Written and produced by Cindy Gross
Host: Cindy Gross
Voiced by AI (Claude + Descript)
All words generated or curated by a human with care.

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Roar with dragonfire warmth and enduring wisdom!

Cindy Gross, Leadership Culture Coach and CEO at Befriending Dragons

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Layoffs don’t just take your job—they shake your identity.

If you’ve recently been laid off from a tech company or are bracing for what's next, this episode is for you. Cindy shares her personal story of being laid off from Microsoft in 2014. What it broke open, what it revealed, and what it took to begin again.

You’ll hear:

• Why tech layoffs feel so personal (because they are)
• What identity rupture looks like - and how to begin healing it
• Grounding prompts to help you reclaim who you are
• A gentle reminder that you are more than your job title
• An invitation to a free live session designed for people just like you

This isn’t about hustle or toxic positivity.
It’s about finding your footing when the ground gives way and choosing who you’ll become on the other side.

✦ Renew your fire in Layoff Renewal Circles: https://community.BefriendingDragons.com/pages/layoffrenewalcircles

* If cost is a barrier I can offer a coupon code.

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Roar with dragonfire warmth and enduring wisdom!

Cindy Gross, Leadership Culture Coach and CEO at Befriending Dragons

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In this episode of Befriending Dragons, I explore the power of boundaries—how they protect my values, strengthen relationships, and help me lead with integrity. Boundaries aren’t about controlling others; they’re about deciding how I show up, no matter what anyone else does.

I share personal stories, like how a miscommunication with a personal trainer felt like a violation of my integrity. That experience taught me that setting boundaries isn’t rude—it’s an act of self-respect and trust. If a relationship falls apart because I express a boundary, maybe it’s one I need to let go.

I also talk about workplace dynamics, like when senior team members take all the high-impact projects, leaving newcomers without real opportunities to shine. I encourage listeners to recognize when their values are being challenged and to set boundaries that protect their energy and leadership strength.

My takeaway? Befriending your boundaries dragon allows you to reclaim your time, your voice, and your authenticity. Ready to explore your own boundaries?

If you’re listening and realizing you need language for the boundaries you don’t know how to put into words, check out my Dragonfire Boundaries GPT. It helps you create scripts you can use right away: https://befriendingdragons.com/boundariesgpt

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Let’s talk! Book a call at BefriendingDragons.com and start your journey.

Roar with dragonfire warmth and enduring wisdom!

Cindy Gross, Leadership Culture Coach and CEO at Befriending Dragons