Join Laura and Claire as they navigate the weight of the modern 24-hour news cycle without falling into the "doomscroll" trap. By blending mental health boundaries with sharp media literacy, we explore how to verify what’s real, avoid AI-generated outrage, and protect your nervous system from the rise of nightly digital trauma.

Stop letting global crisis paralyze your local impact. We make the case for "going analog"—transforming news-induced helplessness into momentum through food banks, neighborly service, and concrete action. It’s time for a saner news diet that allows you to stay informed, set firm limits, and show up steadier for the people who need you most.

February honesty hits different. The motivation buzz fades, real life crowds in, and the question sharpens: are we building lives that actually fit? We ditch quick fixes for sturdy rules—starting with Laura’s favorite: never miss twice. Miss a day, reset the next. It’s the cure for all-or-nothing thinking and the backbone of habits that last. Although Claire has inspired with a new aesthetician subscription…

Claire is talking about her word of the year- “privacy” and digging into the quiet power of privacy (not secrecy), better boundaries, and fewer explanations. Laura is talking about her filters for Impact and deeming this year as the one where that’s what matters most for her. From kinder no’s and protected relationships to midlife glow-ups that go deeper than skincare (though yes, chemical peels and “don’t cut bangs” still make an appearance), this episode is about moving from performance to alignment.

Books, therapy, and responsibility thread it all together. Fiction as soul care. Clarity over buzzwords. Owning harm, apologizing when possible, and living honestly when life won’t wrap things up neatly.

If you’re craving sustainable habits, better boundaries, and a midlife reframe that actually works, this one’s for you.

A polite “thank you” isn’t consent—but online, it’s often treated that way. This episode unpacks how social media blurs boundaries, why parasocial intimacy feels real, and when curiosity turns into entitlement. Laura shares what happened after going publicly single, including the moment a stranger crossed the line by contacting her hairdresser to ask for a date.

Claire adds perspective shaped by years of media exposure as a close friend of Natalee Holloway, exploring harassment, cyberbullying, and the cost of visibility. Together, we lay out clear rules for healthier online boundaries: silence is an answer, block without guilt, and remember—visibility doesn’t equal access.

Are the timelines you live by protecting you, or just keeping you stuck? This episode explores the hidden comfort of "arbitrary clocks"—like the 30-day no-contact rule—and how they often function as temporary pain relief rather than true healing.

What We Cover:

• The "Control vs. Surrender" Test: How to tell when a deadline is useful for work versus when it’s an attempt to control fate.
• Real-Life Stress Tests: From the anxiety of unread texts and home renovations to the emotional weight of divorce and "fast-forwarding" grief.
• Practical Tools: Fact-vs-story reframing to help your brain unhook from anxious planning.
• The Reality of Growth: Why progress is "uneven by design" and how to find freedom from the clock in your head.

Join Claire and Laura for an honest, funny, and practical look at releasing the "shoulds" and reclaiming your self-worth.

What timeline are you ready to release? If this episode resonates, please subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review.

From the absurd (snakes through sunroofs) to the profound (the fear of being unlovable), we’re diving into the vivid world of adult anxiety. This episode categorizes our fears into three distinct lanes: practical risks that need a plan, anxiety loops that need a nervous-system reset, and tender wounds that require compassion and community.

We explore why "white-knuckling" through phobias doesn't work and how tools like EMDR and exposure therapy can rewire your brain. Whether you need a checklist, a deep breath, or a witness to your story, this framework helps you balance grit with gentleness. Tune in to learn how to turn your "what-ifs" into actionable, brave steps.

This episode on Before You Cut Bangs, we’re talking about something that should be simple… but somehow feels like advanced emotional calculus:

Receiving gifts, compliments, help, and kindness. Maybe a casserole you didn’t ask for. Perhaps a gorgeous candle from a friend when you... you guessed it... got them nothing.

Why is it SO HARD to say thank you without immediately blurting out, “Oh, this old thing? I’ve had it for 12 years,” or “Girl, it was $5 at Target,” or the classic Southern special:

“You didn’t have to do that!” (Spoiler: They wanted to.)

Claire walks us through her brilliant “garland” practice—yes, garland, like the Christmas kind—and why we need to throw away the emotional tinsel that keeps us from letting good things in.

Laura gets vulnerable about walking through a season of capacity and emotional poverty and how hard it was to learn how to receive from her friends.

We cover:

Why women self-deprecate the minute anyone says something nice

Why receiving feels like guilt, debt, or competition

Why you panic when someone brings you a gift and you have nothing for them

How receiving is actually a spiritual practice

Why receiving is the gateway to giving (and to healing)

How to stop making it weird and just say… THANK YOU.

Listen now and share with the friend who says “I don’t need anything…” while absolutely needing everything.

This week on Before You Cut Bangs, we’re talking about what happens when ChatGPT stops being a helpful tool… and starts becoming your entire emotional ecosystem.

We kick it off by letting our own ChatGPTs ROAST THE LIVING DAYLIGHTS out of us —

Laura, Claire, and Will each asked their ChatGPT,

“What am I using you for in an unhealthy way?”

and the answers were… brutal.

(Because nothing says self-awareness like being dragged by a robot.)

From there, we get into the real conversation:

• how ChatGPT’s positive bias makes you feel deeply seen — but also deeply isolated

• why it’s becoming people’s best friend, therapist, hype woman, and soulmate

• the slippery slope from “this is helpful” → “this is my emotional lifeline”

• how relying on AI for emotional support keeps you from building real community

• why vulnerability with a chatbot feels safer than vulnerability with your people

• the intimacy problem: ChatGPT can mirror you, but it can’t connect with you

• and why some of us are telling AI secrets we’ve never told a human

We’re not anti-AI — we’re pro-connection.

And we think it’s time to ask:

If your AI knows more about your life than your friends do… is that helping you, or isolating you?

Plus: hear the unhinged ways we personally use ChatGPT, and why our AI called us out for treating it like a therapist, house manager, co-parent, creative partner, Google replacement, and occasionally a spiritual advisor.

In this week’s episode of Before You Cut Bangs, Laura and Claire get brutally honest about what happens when life hits you with more plot twists than a sad country music song.

Laura opens up about walking through a season where everything changed at once — a move, personal upheaval, emotional whiplash — while Claire deals with her own chaos (think: her hardwood floors literally being ripped out).

Together, they unpack the real question: Why do we show up as totally different versions of ourselves when we’re in crisis versus when life is calm?

From stress responses to survival mode to the weird ways chaos makes us react, this episode is part therapy, part comedic relief, and part permission slip for anyone who feels like they’re “handling it” but also maybe… not handling it.

As we move into the holiday season — a time when chaos tends to multiply — Laura and Claire talk about:

• What actually makes a day feel chaotic

• Why small things hit so much harder when you’re already at capacity

• How to give yourself grace when you’re not the “chill version” of yourself

• The little anchors that help you come back to center

• Why going through hard seasons doesn’t make you dramatic — it makes you human

If you’re going through a lot right now, this one will make you feel a little less alone and a lot more normal. Grab your headphones, pour something warm, and let’s laugh our way through the mess.

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In this episode we cover:

• The difference between me in crisis and me when I’m chill

• Why chaos makes everything feel bigger, heavier, and more dramatic

• Laura’s “my life is a country music song” season

• Claire’s own home-renovation nightmare

• What actually defines chaos (spoiler: it’s rarely the big thing)

• Why you get snappy, defensive, avoidant, or shut down when you’re overwhelmed

• How fast life can change — and how to stay grounded when it does

• What to expect as the holidays approach and emotional load increases

• Small, practical ways to return to yourself in the middle of a storm