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Bongani & Them

Bongani & Them

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My name is Bongani Sithole. I am a Black gay man from Johannesburg and this is my digital journal. I started this because I needed somewhere to put it all. Work, dating, the things I am still figuring out about myself, the patterns I keep repeating, the growth I am chasing. All of it. And sometimes the people I love most show up and we unpack it together. I am not here to perform. I am here to be honest. Because I genuinely believe that if I say the thing out loud, someone somewhere is going to hear it and feel a little less alone. That is the whole point. If you have ever felt like you were carrying something you could not quite name, welcome. You found the right place.Bongani Sithole Sciences sociales
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  • The Inner Frequency — Enough
    May 19 2026

    In this episode, I sit with a question that has been following me around for a long time. Not in an obvious way, but underneath almost everything. Am I enough?


    I look at where that feeling lives in my daily life, the comparison, the measuring, the moments I talk myself out of my own worth. And I try to find the moments where I actually felt enough, and what made them feel that way.


    This one is personal.

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    25 min
  • The Inner Frequency — Trust
    May 14 2026

    In this episode, I explore what it actually means to trust myself. Not in theory, but in the moments that count, when I am uncertain, when I am activated, when the noise is loudest.


    I reflect on the two versions of myself I have come to recognise, the calm one and the reactive one, and why for a long time I trusted the wrong one more.


    I close with something I have been learning slowly, that confidence is not the absence of doubt. It is choosing to move anyway.


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    Music by Roman Dudchyk from Pixabay, produced by Grand_Project.


    Audio mastered and enhanced using Auphonic

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    20 min
  • The Inner Frequency — Session B: The Shape of Me
    May 13 2026

    In this episode, I explore how the environment I grew up in quietly becomes the blueprint for who I am, and how those early lessons show up in the way I move through relationships today.


    I reflect on recognising personal patterns, particularly in romantic relationships, and what it means to respond rather than react when things feel uncertain or unfamiliar.


    I close the episode with a gentle shift in perspective, exploring the art of slowness as a practice, and what it looks like to choose intention over impulse in everyday moments

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    23 min
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