In this episode I talk about an experience with a book club book that really highlighted how different our perspectives on sex can be. I'm open about talking about sex—I even do pole dancing shows and am starting this podcast about becoming a sex coach. My coworkers have shared their sex lives with me, and I've done the same. Hearing their thoughts on the book was fascinating because it reminded me that everyone has a unique perspective. It's not about being right or wrong; it's just different experiences.

People often have preconceived notions about others' sex lives based on appearances or stereotypes. I frequently surprise people when I share my sexual preferences because I look innocent and sweet, but my interests can be quite unexpected. It's crucial to explore and enjoy sex on our own terms, without being swayed by others' judgments or expectations.

So, what does your sex life look like now? What's your ideal? Whether you're having sex or not, in a monogamous or polyamorous relationship, using sex toys or not, it's all valid. The important thing is to communicate with your partner(s) and explore what feels right for you. Remember, as long as there's consent and no harm, the sky's the limit.

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