Jason and Nate come out swinging: equal parts riotous dad energy and deeply honest parenting. Tonight’s episode is a nonstop mix of laughs and real talk.

Highlights:

• Parenting mayhem: sundresses vs. snow pants, rogue bangs, and the great ballet‑bun outsourcing confession.
• Tough love with heart: teaching body boundaries, consent language, and recruiting aunties and allies for Lizzy.
• Party politics: playdate protocol, gift‑opening drama, and the extra scrutiny LGBTQ parents sometimes face.
• Unexpected wins: Girl Scouts orientation surprises and Nate nearly signing up on the spot.
• Gay Agenda: alarming UK life‑expectancy data and dangerous T‑erasure, plus Winter Olympics queer highlights.
• Tiny moments, huge feels: sticky‑note love notes that melted both dads.

Fast, funny, fierce — laugh out loud, then feel all the feels. Hit subscribe and join the chaos.

This week Jason and Nate recap their favorite guest (Steven) and a powerful Netflix short featuring Matthew Shepard’s dad, dig into the difference between being an ally and a co-conspirator, and unpack how their parenting philosophy has evolved—from strict rules to positive, connection-first parenting for their daughter Lizzy. They compare parenting styles, share practical wins (and fails), and reveal the tiny rituals that bring joy to their household.

They also tackle aging with dignity (and the cultural weirdness of “Mar‑a‑Lago face”), then shift to an urgent news alert: a Heritage Foundation–backed campaign and hundreds of anti‑LGBTQ bills moving in state legislatures that threaten families like theirs. Candid, outraged, and hopeful, they explain why visibility and organizing matter now more than ever.

Light, loving, and unflinchingly real—tune in for honest parenting talk, culture critique, and a reminder that a child’s laugh can fix almost any day. Subscribe, leave a review, and join the community. Onward

ACLU Resource: https://www.aclu.org/legislative-attacks-on-lgbtq-rights-2026?state=

This week on Two Gay Dads we sit down with Stephen Chukumba, co‑founder and advocacy/outreach coordinator of Rainbow in Black. Stephen shares his powerful origin story as an accidental advocate, frontline strategies for supporting Black trans and gender‑expansive youth, and how families — especially fathers and single parents — can show up as true co‑conspirators. We discuss community building, resources (including a dating/disclosure guide co‑authored with HRC), racial dimensions of anti‑trans attacks, the fight over trans athletes in the courts, and a moving family story about patience, boundaries, and eventual acceptance. Plus: This Week in Gay News — adoptions stalled, dangerous deportations to Iran, Iowa’s expanded “don’t say” push, and joyful trans mutual‑aid in Florida.

Takeaways:

• How to support Black trans youth and their families in culturally specific ways
• Practical advocacy steps: local organizing, telling stories, contacting officials
• Why patience, firm boundaries, and community outreach matter
• Joyful resistance as a form of survival and organizing

Actions:
Subscribe, rate, and share — and if you’re moved by Stephen’s work, learn more about Rainbow in Black and ways to support local trans organizations and legal defenders (ACLU, Lambda Legal, local clinics).

Hosts: Jason & Nathan
Guest: Stephen Chukumba — Rainbow in Black

Resources:

www.rainbowinblack.org

www.stephenchukumba.com