Have you ever caught yourself saying, "I'll never be like my dad" - but still find yourself reacting just like he did?

Many fathers want to break unhealthy generational patterns but end up parenting from a place of avoidance instead of purpose. This episode dives deep into why defining yourself by what you won't do can sabotage your growth, and how building a new identity is the key to real, lasting change.

• Learn the 4 hidden reasons dads fall into inherited parenting patterns even when they try not to.
• Discover why willpower alone fails and how identity-based change creates real transformation.
• Get a practical tool to help reframe your identity and become the dad your family brags about.

Listen now to discover the mindset shift that will help you break cycles and build a legacy you're proud of - starting today.

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Timestamps:

00:00 – Defining identity by avoidance vs. growth
00:14 – Welcome and episode overview
01:03 – Main topic: You Are Not Your Father
02:21 – Inherited patterns and challenges for dads
04:00 – Four reasons inherited patterns persist
05:14 – Intentional parenting, breaking cycles
06:23 – Pitfalls of avoidance-based identity
08:48 – Reframing: Choosing a new identity
09:03 – Habits and identity
10:05 – Stress and default patterns
11:54 – Practical identity statements
12:28 – Identity exercise example
14:16 – Recap and takeaways
15:18 – Encouragement and support
16:12 – Importance of dad community
17:34 – Closing remarks

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