I'm not gonna sit here and tell you looks don't matter. But I am here to tell you that being "hot" is more than just what meets the eye.

This episode is about the fact that appearance and wanting to feel hot is real...and it's human. Feeling confident in your body and liking the way you look can absolutely make life better.

In this episode, I’m talking about why being “hot” goes way deeper than your face, your body, or society’s beauty standards. Because the people who feel the hottest aren’t just attractive...they’re disciplined, self-respecting, and confident in who they are inside and out.

Today we talk about:

• Why wanting to be hot doesn’t make you shallow—it makes you human
• How taking care of your appearance builds self-trust and momentum
• The difference between looking good and feeling grounded in yourself
• Why discipline, standards, and energy are just as attractive as looks
• How to define your own version of hot without letting society control it

When you put effort into yourself (physically, mentally, emotionally) you start moving differently. Your confidence becomes quieter. Your standards rise. Your life feels easier. And yes, your looks improve too....but that’s just one piece of the glow-up.

This isn’t about obsessing over how you look. It’s about respecting yourself enough to show up for yourself.

You deserve to feel attractive. You deserve to feel proud of yourself. You deserve to enjoy your life.

We only get one. Do it hot.