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Description

He says that's his best offer. Is it?

She says she agrees. Does she?

The interview went great - or did it?

He said he'd never do it again. But he did.

Listen to this book and send your nonverbal intelligence soaring. Joe Navarro, a former FBI counterintelligence officer and a recognized expert on nonverbal behavior, explains how to "speed-read" people: decode sentiments and behaviors, avoid hidden pitfalls, and look for deceptive behaviors. You'll also learn how your body language can influence what your boss, family, friends, and strangers think of you. You will discover:

  • The ancient survival instincts that drive body language
  • Why the face is the least likely place to gauge a person's true feelings
  • What thumbs, feet, and eyelids reveal about moods and motives
  • The most powerful behaviors that reveal our confidence and true sentiments
  • Simple nonverbals that instantly establish trust
  • Simple nonverbals that instantly communicate authority

Filled with examples from Navarro's professional experience, this definitive book offers a powerful new way to navigate your world.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying reference material will be available in your My Library section along with the audio.

©2008 Joe Navarro (P)2011 HarperCollinsPublishers

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  • Global
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  • Cynthia
  • 06/07/2013

Let Me Hear Your Body Talk

One of the first books I listened to on Audible was Joe Mavarro and Marvin Karlins' "What Every Body is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People" (2012). It was so long ago that I hadn't started writing reviews, but that was fortunate with this book. I've been using some of the techniques described in the book for 18 months, and they work. I wouldn't have known that when I finished the book.

I am a civil trial attorney, and I long relied on gut feeling and intuition when I picked a jury. In other words, just dumb look. This book gave me the ability to know, with some basis, whether a jury liked my client or the opposition, and whether I was effectively advocating my client's defense. Once, in a memory seared sharp, I completely torqued a juror off, which I realized by her flared nostrils and lips pursed together to nonexistence. I was able to dig out of that situation.

This isn't the key to picking a perfect jury, but it helps. It's like knowing a secret code.

I occasionally listen to the book to refresh my techniques. The book teaches how to speed read people, but learning the techniques takes a lot of time, patience, practice and feedback - when you can get it.

I'm giving the book an overall 4 because it is so useful, but it's a 3 on the story. Despite the exciting topic, it's pretty dry and academic. The narration is a three, too. It sounds more like a business seminar than a narration.

I want to mention that "What Every Body is Saying" and Pamela Meyer's "Liespotting: Proven Techniques to Detect Deception" (2011) really builds on Navarro's techniques. Listen to them consecutively, and it's like a college psychology course.

[If this review helped, please let me know by pressing the helpful button. Thanks!]

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  • Global
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  • Theodore
  • 11/06/2013

Barely Made It Through This One

I found this book very.... long. The sad part about this misconception on my end is that I regularly listen to books that are 20+ hours long. I have even gone through War & Peace as well as Anna Karenina and those did not feel as long as this book. The narration was dry at best and I found myself just getting through this book through mostly sheer will power than due to any sort of interest.

If you are a naturally observant person, one of those people particular key on detail then you will find this book more or less telling you what you know already. A lot of what is said in this book regarding reading people tends to be very subjective and the author admits this at multiple parts in the book. I won't lie and say there was nothing good or nothing learned here because there was actually some noteworthy portions and it served to confirm some of my already preconceived notions; on a whole I saw it as just a sea of useless fodder with just a small handful of note-worthy moments.

The narration was painful to listen to.... I found it so difficult to get through this book and the narration did not help. Maybe it was the content that was just lackluster and the narrator couldn't do much to improve it.

As I said, this book just seemed way too long for a title that is just 7 hours long... I normally go through 7 hour worth listening in a day.... Yet I think I went over a week before I could finish this one....

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  • Global
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  • Jackie
  • 28/05/2012

I should have listen to the other reviewers

What would have made What Every BODY Is Saying better?

The material was dry and repetitive. Nothing earth shattering or insightful and the performance was perfunctory at best. The content could have been covered in a 30 page report that would have been more memorable had the reader been dynamic.

Has What Every BODY Is Saying turned you off from other books in this genre?

no

What didn’t you like about Paul Costanzo’s performance?

Little inflection or intonation - like being read to by a robot

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  • Global
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  • Dominik Runopotamus
  • 03/02/2013

Hard to be excited

Would you recommend this book to a friend? Why or why not?

I'd not recommend this book cause it's like recommending half cake recipe to best friend...

What was most disappointing about Joe Navarro and Marvin Karlins ’s story?

Through whole book I had a feeling that some ingredients in this recipe are missing. In my mind if you want to share something with others do it right and honestly or don't bother at all.

How did the narrator detract from the book?

Narrator really sucks... He's more boring than all my worst teachers combined.

Could you see What Every BODY Is Saying being made into a movie or a TV series? Who should the stars be?

No, no, no...!!! No movie here!

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  • Global
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  • loix
  • 09/04/2012

The book could have been so much better

1. If it had had another narrator (as pointed out by most of the earlier reviews). This narrator seems to be constantly out of breath and pauses whenever he can (within a single breath group in a few cases). It's a miracle that despite the narrator I still could see that the author has done his best to lay out his expertise in a way that would make sense to the least attentive reader.

2. If the editor had cut out most of the redundant passages and "foreshadowing". The introduction seemed so long, I kept wondering if the book would ever get to the point instead of promising to do this and that. There were also quite a few examples that were repeated (along with the accompanying pictures).

3. If the author had gone into the details of the case of the "liar that got away" near the end of the book. The author confesses that even he didn't see it coming (which was refreshing), and since he goes to such great lengths to underscore how difficult lie detection is, it would have been helpful if he had provided his "hindsight" about the case of that liar extraordinaire.

4. If the publisher had hired professional actors to demonstrate the different "tells". Despite his expertise in spotting and analyzing tells, the author (also the man in the pictures) leaves much to be desired as a mime, and the woman in the pictures was even less convincing.

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  • Nate
  • 11/07/2012

A few pointers...

60% obvious observations, 30% "Lie to Me", 10% fascinating and applicable information. The accompanying pdf is pretty cheesy, but does serve to sum up the info.

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  • None of your damn business
  • 23/03/2012

Interesting, SLOW narration and very dry

Is there anything you would change about this book?

The narrator. He was so generic and flat it was difficult to maintain interest. I ended up listening at 2x speed. The topic was sometimes dry and a little hard to follow - but at least the author attempted to make a few asides or crack a joke or two, but none of that came across in the performance.

How would you have changed the story to make it more enjoyable?

No much of a reliance on the PDF file to describe or demonstrate the content. Maybe this wasn't the right kind of book for an audiobook.

What didn’t you like about Paul Costanzo’s performance?

It was flat, monotone and lacking in any sort of real inflection. It made it difficult to maintain my interest in the book. He could have just as easily been discussing the merits of diesel engines. I've heard more interesting performances on commercials for mutual funds.

Could you see What Every BODY Is Saying being made into a movie or a TV series? Who should the stars be?

Maybe a corporate training video starring an insurance salesman.

Any additional comments?

Good book for the content, but prepare for a slog through the narration.

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  • Global
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  • GH
  • 21/05/2012

Get great insight with minimum fluff

If you could sum up What Every BODY Is Saying in three words, what would they be?

Know thy interactions.

What did you like best about this story?

This is a very informative book. Navarro is a retired FBI agent with a great deal of experience in the art of reading people. What I liked most was his attention to the methods for reading people in contrast to telling many stories from his career. Too often in books like this are short on information and long on memories. This is not the case for this excellent work of non-fiction.

What about Paul Costanzo’s performance did you like?

Paul's reading was very clear and articulate. However, you could have picked up the tempo of the reading.

Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

I would say 70% of the material in this book surprised me. My expectations of what was offered were surpassed because the information was clearly field tested and so different from what I would have guessed.

Any additional comments?

I recommend reading this if you want to learn more about human gestures and what they generally mean.

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  • Global
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  • Anonymous User
  • 21/01/2013

Don't buy this.

What could have made this a 4 or 5-star listening experience for you?

More information told in a more interesting way.

What was most disappointing about Joe Navarro and Marvin Karlins ’s story?

Basic information that could have been gleaned from a magazine article. No true insghts.

Any additional comments?

Skip this one.

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  • Global
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  • Dazy
  • 15/05/2012

Not good for the Audio, but for the hard copy

What disappointed you about What Every BODY Is Saying?

there are many things related with PDF which is not included in audibook

If you’ve listened to books by Joe Navarro and Marvin Karlins before, how does this one compare?

NA

How did the narrator detract from the book?

great

What reaction did this book spark in you? Anger, sadness, disappointment?

very interesting story

Any additional comments?

wish to have those PDF mentioned in the book to visualize the readings

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  • Global
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  • Arnaud
  • 04/07/2016

Needs to be read several times

Full of information and insights, but difficult to focus while walking. The book is very well documented, with practical examples of the body positions that reveal the real thought of the interviewee. But this book needs to be heard again and again. It is very useful for sales people ...like me!

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  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
  • BPd
  • 31/07/2012

Original, Practical & Real

A lot of good body language readers and human lie detectors become so out of some autobiographical necessity, usually some personal drama. This is also the case in Joe Navarro's story. He had to quickly learn to read people when he exiled into the US from Cuba. In his case, it left him with a pleasantly humanitarian side, in spite of his shady employment situation. For example, the book tells how to detect signs of abuse in children, embroidered by his own experiences as father on playgrounds.
But the book is also good for it's original content. A lot about arm movement etc. I have not come across too much elsewhere. There is a wealth of intelligent life experience in this book, including also warnings about oversimplifications.
In addition it's incredibly well read, always a big factor in an audio book.
Recommended.

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  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
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  • mountain_gipsy
  • 08/06/2014

Spannend aber nicht als Hörbuch geeignet

Sehr spannendes Buch über Body Language. Als Hörbuch ist es jedoch nicht sehr geeignet, da es viele Bilder beinhaltet.

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  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
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  • Oliver Dittmann
  • 09/07/2014

Kurzweiliges, tagtäglich anwendbares Sachhörbuch

Würden Sie What Every BODY Is Saying noch mal anhören? Warum?

Was kann man aus der Körpersprache der Mitmenschen lesen? Viele der Inhalte sind einem unterbewusst vertraut und es ist sehr wertvoll, sie sich bewusst zu machen. Zur Kurzweil tragen die vielen Beispiele aus dem alltäglichen Leben und auch aus der besonderen Lebenswelt eines FBI-Beamten bei. Prädikat sehr hörenswert!

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  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Klaus
  • 05/02/2013

Good to know...

Nice voice and excellent knowledge. The book is pleasant to listen and the author has a friendly way to share his experiance. I learned a lot and i enjoyed the time with this book.
Thanks a lot.
And if you are thinking: Hmmm, i know this all already. Be ensured, Mr Navarro can also give you new insights.
Klaus

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  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Zizhe D.
  • 24/03/2018

narrator can be better

not bad technic and good for someone who just got into a new job as well, the narrator can be more interesting

  • Global
    4 out of 5 stars
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  • Chamäleon
  • 15/02/2018

Good summary

Includes nearly all most important body analysis aspects, nonetheless, I did not get anything new out of it.

  • Global
    4 out of 5 stars
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    4 out of 5 stars
  • Apo
  • 26/01/2018

Awesome analysis

Loved the breakdown of different body parts and example of stories.
Narrator is great in keeping you attentive.

  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
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  • Marcin P
  • 17/09/2015

A nice book

There are many obvious things hovever shown into a new light. very nice voice of the reader.

  • Global
    5 out of 5 stars
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    3 out of 5 stars
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    4 out of 5 stars
  • Andreas H.
  • 11/08/2015

Interessantes Thema

Ich habe das Buch zuvor auf deutsch gelesen. Ergänzend habe ich nun das englische Hörbuch gehört. Ich habe leider nicht alles verstanden, was aber an meinen Englischkenntnissen liegt und nicht am Schreibstil bzw. des Lesers.

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