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Late Bloomers

The Power of Patience in a World Obsessed with Early Achievement
Lu par : Fred Sanders
Durée : 9 h et 19 min
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A groundbreaking exploration of how finding one's way later in life can be an advantage to long-term achievement and happiness.

“What Yogi Berra observed about a baseball game - it ain't over till it's over - is true about life, and [Late Bloomers] is the ultimate proof of this.... It’s a keeper.” (Forbes)

We live in a society where kids and parents are obsessed with early achievement, from getting perfect scores on SATs to getting into Ivy League colleges to landing an amazing job at Google or Facebook - or even better, creating a start-up with the potential to be the next Google or Facebook or Uber. We see software coders becoming millionaires or billionaires before age 30 and feel we are failing if we are not one of them.

Late bloomers, on the other hand, are undervalued - in popular culture, by educators and employers, and even unwittingly by parents. Yet the fact is a lot of us - most of us - do not explode out of the gates in life. We have to find our way. We have to discover our passions, talents, and gifts. That was true for author Rich Karlgaard, who had a mediocre academic career at Stanford (which he got into by a fluke) and after graduating, worked as a dishwasher and night watchman before finally finding the inner motivation and drive that ultimately led him to start up a high-tech magazine in Silicon Valley and eventually to become the publisher of Forbes magazine.

There is a scientific explanation for why so many of us bloom later in life. The executive function of our brains doesn't mature until age 25 - and later for some. In fact, our brain's capabilities peak at different ages. We actually enjoy multiple periods of blooming in our lives. 

Based on several years of research, personal experience, and interviews with neuroscientists and psychologists and countless people at different stages of their careers, Late Bloomers reveals how and when we achieve our full potential - and why today's focus on early success is so misguided and even harmful.

Praise for Late Bloomers

“The underlying message that we should ‘consider a kinder clock for human development’ is a compelling one.” (Financial Times)

Late Bloomers spoke to me deeply as a parent of two millennials and as a coach to many new college grads (the children of my friends and associates). It’s a bracing tonic for the anxiety they are swimming through, with a facts-based approach to help us all calm down.” (Robin Wolaner, founder of Parenting magazine) 

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“I’m tempted to say this book was long overdue, but the truth is that it couldn’t come at a better time. Rich Karlgaard makes a commanding case against the wunderkind ideal, in favor of recognizing that late bloomers often prove to be the most radiant. If you’ve ever known someone who was overlooked or underestimated - or been that someone - you’ll immediately appreciate the importance of this message. Reading it is an utter delight.” (Adam Grant, New York Times best-selling author of Originals and Give and Take)

“Despite Aesop’s warnings, our society still admires the hare more than the tortoise. We deify those who burst out of life’s starting blocks and disdain those who take time to find their pace. But that’s a colossal mistake, says Rich Karlgaard in his powerful new book. Drawing on a deep reservoir of science, Karlgaard shows that many of us - perhaps most of us - peak well after our wunderkind years as we acquire the wisdom, resilience, and equanimity necessary for genuine achievement. Deftly written and deeply researched, Late Bloomers will change the conversation about success in America.” (Daniel H. Pink, author of When and Drive

"Late Bloomers spoke to me deeply as a parent of two millennials and as a coach to many new college grads (the children of my friends and associates). It's a bracing tonic for the anxiety they are swimming through, with a facts-based approach to help us all calm down." (Robin Wolaner, founder of Parenting Magazine) 

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  • Theodore Henry
  • 21/04/2019

Not self-help...but super effin’ helpful

Oh, wow. This book spoke to me on a level that no other has done to this point. The timing could not have been any better, too. My girlfriend is one of the “early bloomers” discussed in the book; scored 1580 combined on her SAT, accepted to Harvard...twice, and has done everything “the right way.” She hasn’t so much as received a traffic ticket, even. I, on the other hand, have had some experiences. I was a mediocre student with flashes of brilliance in areas I really liked and I easily dismissed subjects I didn’t care for, scored slightly above average on my SAT, graduated in the top quarter, and got into my first choice of university: the illustrious University of North Texas! Flunked our after my freshman year with a 1.75 GPA. Joined the Navy and did that for seven years...and I couldn’t even do that right: was discharged under “other than honorable” conditions. Worked in various sales jobs until I came into residential property management and I finally found something that I was both good at and enjoyed. And guess what? I messed that up, too. After becoming an “adult,” I would find myself in the pokey at least once a year for unpaid traffic tickets. I had a horrible temper. I was incredibly stubborn. I was clearly my own worst enemy.

Fast forward to about three years ago and, shortly after deciding to go back to school once I found out that I was still eligible for my Montgomery GI benefits, I met my superstar girlfriend. She took interest in me but until just recently I was constantly worried that I wasn’t good enough for her due to her academic prowess and her faultless life. I believed her when she told me that my past snafus were not indicative of who I am and what I am capable of, especially considering the fact that I decided to go back to school to pursue a career in law, but because she was the “other,” her credibility wasn’t sufficient; I always felt as if her and those of her ilk were always secretly judging my every move and word, linking it back to my history of failure and surreptitiously casting me aside.

All of these feelings have negatively impacted my academic performance - not as badly as the first time, but I’m not doing myself any favors by squeaking out Bs and a few As, especially considering that my top choice of law school is one where Bs as an undergrad is...well, I fear that my application will literally be laughed at upon receipt by admissions officials. I even started telling myself that becoming a lawyer isn’t for me because I’m too stupid for it. Then I heard of this book on NPR and figured it was worth listening to; I certainly felt as if I fall into the “late bloomer” category so maybe I could find some areas that relate to me and use them as sources of motivation. I didn’t expect the ENTIRE book to be relevant. I finished the audiobook in one setting and I walked away with a confidence that had been dormant for 37 years. I’m going to listen to it again and again until every single point is essentially committed to memory.

This isn’t a word I use to describe many books, but this one is more than deserving of the distinction: liberating.

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  • Austin Wiegand
  • 24/04/2019

Inspirational

Nice inspirational piece with some neuro science backup as to why it's ok and sometimes better that you haven't accomplished anything into your 30's, 40's, or even beyond. There's still time to bloom, and your experience and wisdom may make it easier and more enjoyable.

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  • Robert Stevens
  • 12/09/2019

Food for thought

It definitely comes off more scholarly than not. But if you can take the dryer presentation, the content is quite enlightening and presents a new scope for viewing the world and specifically the American cult of early success.

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  • Mike Minor
  • 04/09/2019

Modern Education is Failing our Children

Learn how modern education is setting our children up for failure. Our educational system is teaching our kids how to pass exams (SAT?ACT) and not how to be critical thinking problem solvers. The system isolates kids and curtails collaborative thinking. The elite universities and start up firms are tricking an entire generation into thinking if they are not successful by the age of 25 they are failures. They live in our basements fragile short tempered confused and lost, lacking the confidence and the basic knowledge to learn from failure and use failure as a tool to pick them selves up rather than make excuses. They choose to stay home and play video games all day while delivering pizzas at night with a 150,000 degree from the some ridiculous University that should have given them the confidence to succeed; , not break their spirit and mold them into good worker drones.
There is a lot more here..
that is only part one.. their is hope, as our older generation matures to an awakening. And begins a search for success and creativity with a calmness that only an older wiser mind can discover a true path to success and self discovery. Our experiences, relationships, mentors failures and success become our true educators, life experience has so much more significant value. Find out for yourself.

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  • Jesse Langel
  • 30/08/2019

Solid

The second half of the book, particularly the last two chapters, had some phenomenal, uplifting content.

The author put his heart into it. It’s definitely worth the read. The first chapter was a little too strong on the thesis that we’re obsessed with early achievers. His point is well researched but the best tone for the book came later. So expect gold later in the book.

Thank you for this fine piece of work, Mr. Karlgaard.

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  • Aneil
  • 23/08/2019

Bloom Where You Plant Yourself

Easily one of the best books I’ve read in the past decade. Should be required reading by all parents, principals, professors, and anyone who wants to Bloom.

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  • School Librarian
  • 08/08/2019

Excellent Read

Why does our society demand perfectionism at such a young age? Read this book to understand how important it is to support all students of life so we all succeed whether we are early or late bloomers.

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  • Silva
  • 04/08/2019

Therapeutic audiobook for me.

Listening to this was a therapy for me. So many decisions I had to make were explained here. Getting out of my city, changing career and social cycle... Well, I don't expect to be a millionaire but with this new light I sincerely think my best period of life is right ahead.

Narrator performance is flawless.

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  • Christopher R. Kuhns
  • 30/07/2019

Cohesive long term plan for an uncertain journey

Appreciated the framework approach for determining a perfect outcome when none exists - agile ability delivered for the ages.

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  • Dr. O
  • 25/07/2019

Awesome !

This is just simply awesome. Y'all should read this as soon as you can. Wisdom all the way