S2 Ep147: Just because you care for your narcissistic mother doesn’t mean you have to take the abuse
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Do you feel setting a boundary with your narcissistic mother would mean you don't care for her? Or that it would make you a bad daughter? Does that result in you silently taking abuse after abuse all in the name of caring for her?
One of the things I get told very often is: I’m not able to set boundaries because I care for her too much.
Something that is often assumed is that setting a boundary (which could go all the way to no contact or not) means you don't care about your mother. The thing is: you can still care, but you don’t have to take the abuse.
We end up mixing caring and remaining silent in the face of abuse because as "good daughters" we feel we need to be responsible for our mother's emotionality.
Her emotionality is not and never should have been your responsibility.
Feeling responsible for your narcissistic mother emotionality is a result of enmeshment.
In this episode I share 3 steps to break the pattern of enmeshment and reclaim your own life.
Your mother is not the protagonist in your life, YOU ARE!
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