In this episode of Dementia Discussions, I am joined by Elizabeth Fluck and Meredith Eden of The Hummingbird Project, and what a meaningful conversation this turned out to be. If you’ve ever wondered how to truly enhance quality of life for someone living with dementia—not just manage symptoms, but spark joy—this episode is for you.

We talk about the power of social connection, therapeutic engagement, and why isolation can be so detrimental, especially for seniors and those who cannot easily advocate for themselves. Elizabeth and Meredith share how their strength-based, individualized approach is transforming dementia care through creative arts, purposeful activities, and even virtual programming. You’ll walk away with practical insight and, I hope, a renewed sense of possibility.

Episode Timeline

[0:48] – I kick off Season 4 and reflect on the importance of community and connection for caregivers.

[2:12] – Elizabeth shares how volunteering in a nursing home as a teenager led her to a lifelong passion for working with seniors.

[3:55] – Meredith talks about her background in drama therapy and how she found her true calling on a memory care floor.

[7:49] – We discuss why socialization is more than brain games—and why isolation is especially harmful for seniors with dementia.

[10:30] – The origin of The Hummingbird Project and the need for a true “quality of life” model in elder care.

[12:09] – What one-on-one therapeutic engagement actually looks like—and how specialists tailor activities to each individual.

[15:41] – Beautiful examples of rediscovering talents, including harmonizing with a violinist and reconnecting with professional identity.

[16:52] – “They’re going to forget anyway”—we address this common concern and explain why the moment still matters.

[17:57] – How engagement impacts stress levels, body chemistry, and overall wellness—even if the memory fades.

[20:09] – The flexibility of meeting clients wherever they are: at home, in facilities, or even in the hospital.

[22:35] – The virtual engagement program and how even clients who seem “non-engageable” can thrive online.

[29:19] – How the program supports caregivers by filling in afternoon downtime and reducing agitation.

[33:46] – Navigating resistance to care and how Hummingbird can be the first supportive presence in the door.

[35:26] – How services are structured, billed, and customized to meet each client’s needs.

[42:46] – The partnership with Family Caregiver Alliance and the “Let’s Get Away Together” virtual group experience.

[45:17] – Travel themes, shared stories, and creating meaningful community for caregivers and their loved ones.

[50:47] – The flexibility of scheduling and why there is no rigid commitment structure.

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