Why Boundaries Don’t Exist in Italian Families
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Growing up Italian, everyone knew your business, your mail was already opened, and the idea of “setting boundaries” simply did not exist.
In this episode of the BOH Podcast, I talk about being in therapy, hearing therapists tell you to set boundaries, and realizing that advice makes absolutely no sense if you were raised in an Italian household. No privacy, no secrets, no knocking, and definitely no telling your parents or grandparents “I need space.”
From parents opening your mail, to Nonna showing up unannounced to do your laundry, to the guilt logic that runs every Italian family, this episode breaks down why so many of us end up in therapy not because we were abused, but because we were raised in a culture that does not translate well once you leave the Italian bubble.
It was not malicious, it was not traumatic, it was loving, strict, ridiculous, and completely unhinged by modern standards.
If you grew up Italian, you will feel seen.
If you married into it, this might explain a lot.
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