Reality Check My Life | Midnight Snack | E23: You Know Your Body

There is a quiet violence that happens in medical rooms that rarely gets named.

It doesn’t look like malpractice.
It doesn’t always leave a paper trail.
It often arrives as certainty, authority, and the dismissal of lived experience.

In this Midnight Snack, Gin speaks from the place many people are never allowed to occupy out loud: the authority of embodied knowing.

This episode explores what happens when complex bodies are forced into simplified frameworks—when outliers are treated as problems, when pattern recognition is replaced by protocol, and when advocacy is mistaken for defiance.

Gin shares her lived experiences of medical and dental shame, oral trauma, neurological and sensory complexity, and the long-term consequences of being misunderstood by systems trained to treat averages. She also speaks to the medical trauma experienced alongside her daughter—where diabetes was treated as the primary issue, rather than a secondary condition within a much larger physiological pattern—and how questioning incomplete narratives led to ostracization, threat, and blame rather than curiosity.

This is not an anti-medicine episode.
It is not anti-science.

It is a call back to attunement, humility, and curiosity—and a reminder that lived experience is not anecdotal noise, but primary data.

If you’ve ever been told:
“You’re overthinking.”
“That doesn’t usually happen.”
“You must not be compliant.”

If you’ve ever felt your body reduced to numbers while the bigger picture was ignored—
this Snack is for you.

Sometimes the most responsible thing you can say is:
“I hear you… and I need you to consider—what if?”

The forest matters.
And so do you.