We've all read the books, saved the screensavers and typed out affirmations in our notes apps... but why does the abundance we've prayed for still seem to be so far away sometimes?

It's taken me a long time to unlearn the beliefs about abundance that I didn't know I had: like the idea that money is evil or that having more than you need is greedy.

This week I'm sharing the three-step roadmap I'm using right now to rewire my thinking, pulled from teachings by Lacy Phillips and Joe Dispenza - plus a way to do gratitude on the difficult days without gaslighting myself into something I don't actually believe x

links:

As Young As This - Roxy Dunn

You are A Badass At Making Money - Jen Sincero

To Be Magnetic - Lacy Phillips

Expanded Podcast -TBM

Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself - Joe Dispenza

How to Survive Working for Yourself - Big Sister Diaries

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I love mindset work, I believe in neuroplasticity, and I will always have a soft spot for a motivational quote. But I also can't help but feel that all this advice about "being unbothered” might be actually... not so great?

I want to talk about the other side of personal growth - the part that's not about becoming mentally tougher but actually about FEELING MORE because so many of us have learnt to intellectualise our emotions instead of experience them.

Sacreligious but maybe there is such a thing as too much mindset work? What if the key to being more agile and resilient is actually using our head less and our heart and our nervous system more... and what if it's the key to becoming not just more productive and efficient and happier... but hotter too?

links

TED Talk: the Gift of Emotional Courage - Susan David

Atlas of the Heart - Brene Brown

How Emotions Are Made - Lisa Feldman Barett

Feelings Wheel

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• BSD on Instagram
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• Danielle on Instagram

If you've ever been afraid to decide because you're too afraid there might be a better choice out there you haven't thought of yet - this one is for you.

Today we're talking about the paradox of choice… the feeling of being so frightened of making choices that we regret that we don't do anything at all. And whether you’re struggling with big decisions like your career path or who you choose to marry - or smaller ones like whether you should finally cut a fringe - I hope this episode will help you get out of the overthinking spiral so you can actually start moving towards the things you really want x

links:

Transformative Experience - Laurie Ann Paul

The Bell Jar - Sylvia Plath

Daring Greatly - Brene Brown

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• BSD on Instagram
• BSD on Substack
• Danielle on Instagram