Why Faking Confidence Makes You Unlikeable
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Why Faking Confidence Makes You Unlikeable
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Faking confidence isn't magnetic, it just feels needy. True confidence can't be faked, it has to be developed. In this episode: ‣ What we get wrong about confidence ‣ What people actually find confident and magnetic ‣ How to build confidence from zero ‣ Confidence vs. self-esteem
Video Essay Mentioned: https://youtu.be/MGzByqgaky4
Chapters: 00:00 Intro 00:43 Why we're obsessed with confidence 01:37 Performative confidence/Bravado 03:04 Extroversion and confidence 04:36 Skill/competence as confidence 06:11 Faking confidence 09:13 Bragging about money 10:27 Why we fake confidence 12:24 Steve's examples of faking confidence 14:15 What is "True Confidence"? 16:24 Morgan Freeman example 18:08 Sensitive vs Confident 20:06 How to handle embarrassment 22:18 Where true confidence comes from 24:37 How to build confidence
Connect with Steve:https://www.instagram.com/stvsima/
