Special thanks to Audrey for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

We ask why dating in LA feels like abundance without alignment, and Audrey shares how trust, values, and discipline cut through the noise. From “hey girly” DMs to love languages and run clubs, we test what actually builds a lasting bond.

• LA dating culture and Peter Pan tendencies
• stability vs stubbornness in Taurus traits
• why settling down can be joyful, not dull
• long-distance rules and end-date realities
• people pleasing, boundaries, and reciprocity
• love language misalignment and clear asks
• quality time vs quantity time debate
• where to meet value-driven partners
• first-date green flags and dealbreakers

Thank you to all of our listeners. We’ve been getting a ton of growth and engagement over the past few weeks. So we gotta thank you guys out there for that.

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Special thanks to Payton for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

We dig into why dating apps reward avoidant patterns, how to balance attraction with values, and why “love is a choice” beats the soulmate myth. Peyton shares a seven-month almost-relationship, a five-girlfriend reveal, and the simple rules that keep trust intact.

• online dating norms in Southern California and app fatigue
• attraction as entry, values and consistency as filters
• avoidant attachment cycles and how to exit them
• the five-girlfriend reveal and verifying red flags
• rejecting soulmates, choosing growth and acceptance
• age gaps, maturity, and avoiding “potential” traps
• first-date formats and managing risk and vibes
• height preferences, double standards, and non-negotiables
• boundaries on cheating, phones, and privacy
• shifting from app churn to intentional screening

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Special thanks to Emma for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

We unpack San Diego and LA dating, how blurred boundaries let betrayal repeat, and how trusting ourselves rebuilt confidence. Emma shares how a poetry practice turned pain into meaning and how initiative at work beats waiting for permission.

• San Diego dating realities and red flags
• Meeting on Hinge and trusting alignment
• First love, toxic love and codependency
• Betrayal by friends and gray areas
• Boundaries as self-respect not punishment
• Writing as healing and editing with distance
• Defining cheating, flirting and secrecy
• Fetishes, honesty and consented standards
• Intuition over surveillance and phone checks
• Age gaps, maturity and power dynamics
• First date design and momentum
• Career lessons: action over permission
• Internships, curiosity and being memorable

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Special thanks to Amberlynn for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

We trace Amber’s path from ending a relationship at her mom’s baptism to finding calm in ER nursing while untangling grief, faith, and attachment. It’s raw, funny, and grounded in hard-won boundaries about love, sex, and what belief means when life hurts.

• breaking up at a baptism to stop settling
• cheating, stalking, and the moment the switch flipped
• high sex drive, monogamy, and “recycling” partners
• male friendships and where lines hold
• petty revenge, the bedroom interception, and aftermath
• teen pregnancy, absent father, and family fallout
• faith vs atheism, afterlife fears, and grief
• nursing school stress, ER purpose, and anxiety relief
• attachment styles shaping dating choices
• clear dating criteria, kids, and future hopes

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Special thanks to Lindsey for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

We trace Lindsay’s leap from pre-professional ballet to broadcast ambitions, and how heartbreak, campus life, and tough boundaries reshaped her view of love, loyalty and growth. Raw takes on cheating, double standards, money, and social media guide a practical playbook for modern dating.

• leaving ballet to protect mental health and identity
• adapting to SDSU after homeschool and a breakup
• how to heal without rebound habits
• defining emotional vs physical cheating and gray zones
• setting digital boundaries on likes, DMs and thirst traps
• money, ambition and expectations for long-term partners
• body count math vs double standards and context
• forgiveness, second chances and trust repair
• first-date paying as a signal of intent
• college ROI, real-world skills and career goals

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Special thanks to Johanaa for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

We welcome Joanna, a realtor who left Amazon and healthcare tracks to build a client-first career, and we test her firm dating standards against modern expectations. The conversation heats up around monogamy, open relationships, and what “respect” really looks like when biology, culture, and commitment collide.

• leaving Amazon and medical assisting for real estate and entrepreneurship
• why clear dating standards beat situationships
• defining cheating across physical, emotional, and digital lines
• chivalry cues and how early behavior predicts patterns
• jealousy, insecurity, and trust without surveillance
• monogamy vs open rules, expectations, and control
• forgiveness after infidelity and when to walk away
• non-negotiables: ambition over looks, respect over vibes

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Special thanks to Destiny for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

We talk timelines, boundaries, and the emotional math of love, from first-date sparks to long-term safety. Destiny shares hard lessons from a toxic college relationship, why moving in first is non-negotiable, and how honesty outperforms vibes.

• early hopes for marriage and kids meet adult responsibility
• dating in LA and San Diego as trade-offs with peace and routine
• living together before engagement as a core rule
• toxic relationship patterns, stalking, and recovery
• standards for respect, second chances, and quick exits
• monogamy vs openness, intention vs action, clear lines
• dopamine, intimacy, and safety across relationship stages
• flirting, validation, jealousy, and control debated
• submission, leadership, and shared decision-making
• nightlife lessons on honesty, boundaries, and trust

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Special thanks to Savanna for being a part of this episode of Unattainable Podcast Show

We unpack LA dating archetypes, the thin line between clout and coercion, and how bare-minimum chivalry can disguise deeper problems. Savannah shares how she rebuilt boundaries after a manipulative relationship, a Vegas investigation, and a fresh betrayal that sent her to small claims court.

• categories of LA guys and why trust breaks fast
• sex work tradeoffs, stigma, and dating limits
• choosing independence over financial control
• seeing patterns in partners and fixing selection
• the TikTok scammer story, threats, and tracking
• Vegas incident, detectives, and testifying
• sugar daddies, consent, risk, and discretion
• intimacy myths, skills over size, and boundaries
• money, trademarks, and reclaiming power

I will be suing him in small claims court because he does owe me money

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