Type O Positive
Unable to add items
Add to basket failed.
Add to wishlist failed.
Failed to remove from Wish List.
Adding to library failed
Unable to follow podcast
Unable to unfollow podcast
-
Narrated by:
-
By:
What if the type you describe and the people you actually date have nothing to do with each other? Kalilah Price — predictive-systems researcher, reluctant "dating-app expert," and proud ABD — comes to the den to take apart the gap between what people say they want and what they actually do. Along the way: why a "match" isn't a match, why dopamine isn't pleasure, and why your dealbreakers are doing more work than your wish list. Plus the debut of a certain peer-reviewed guest lecturer, and the buzzer-beater pun the whole episode is named after.
This is not a dating-advice episode. It's a behavioral-systems episode wearing a dating episode's drawls — and you may leave understanding your own choices a little less than when you started.
Guest: Kalilah PriceHarlem-based researcher who came up in political science (she figured she'd end up a campaign pollster) and landed, almost by accident, in recommendation systems and dating-app consulting. She guest-lectures around the world, takes the occasional adjunct quarter, and is ABD — "all but dissertation," with no particular urgency to finish. Warm, fast, and allergic to oversimplifying anything, she rejects the "doctor," the "expert," and the "guru" labels with equal ease — and is consistently a cut above