Have you ever caught yourself reacting in a way you promised yourself you wouldn't anymore?

Maybe you get defensive with your partner, shut down when someone criticizes you, or find yourself falling into the same patterns of people-pleasing, overthinking, or self-doubt.

And the most frustrating part? You know better. You've done the inner work. So why does it keep happening?

In this episode of the Thrive State Podcast, Dr. Kien Vuu (Dr. V) explores the science of neuroplasticity, the nervous system, and why old emotional patterns can be so difficult to break.

Drawing from his own experiences with relationships, self-worth, and personal growth, Dr. V shares a simple metaphor about how our brains form habitual responses, and how we can begin creating new pathways.

You'll also discover a practical five-step framework to help you become more aware of your triggers, regulate your emotions, and consciously choose how you want to respond.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why knowing better doesn't always lead to doing better

• How childhood beliefs and experiences shape our emotional reactions

• What neuroplasticity teaches us about changing old patterns

• Why getting triggered doesn't mean you haven't healed

• How your nervous system influences your thoughts, emotions, and behavior

• The five steps to change: Feel, Regulate, Listen, Choose, Repeat

• How unconscious emotional patterns can drain your energy

• Why healing is about awareness, not perfection

A reminder from this episode:

Growth isn't necessarily about never getting triggered again. Sometimes, it's about recognizing an old pattern sooner, responding with more intention, and returning to yourself a little faster each time.

Your Thrive State Challenge:

For the next seven days, identify one emotional pattern that no longer serves you.

Instead of judging yourself when it shows up, practice noticing, regulating, listening, choosing, and repeating.

You might be surprised by how much can change when you stop automatically reacting and start consciously responding.

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Remember, my friends: You are your best medicine.

— Dr. Kien Vuu (Dr. V)

What if the thing aging you fastest isn't your diet or your genes, but the story running in the back of your mind?

In this episode, Dr Kien Vuu and David Meltzer discuss the hidden link between mindset, the nervous system, and chronic disease. Dr V shares how, 13 years ago, he was a surgeon who was overweight, diabetic, hypertensive and on several medications, and headed toward his own operating table.

Together they explore how the ego's search for safety, love and connection keeps the body stuck in "danger mode," and why choosing faith over fear may be one of the most powerful tools for longevity and performance.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• How Dr. V's own diagnosis of diabetes and high blood pressure changed the way he practices medicine

• Why medical training focuses on matching drugs to symptoms, and what it misses

• How the ego forms when childhood needs for safety, love and connection go unmet

• The epigenetic messages chronic stress sends to your DNA, including more inflammation and less immunity

• Why "dis-ease" is mental, emotional and spiritual as well as physical

• How to spot the subconscious stories that trigger your nervous system, and how to question them

• Faith vs. fear: why both are invisible forces, and why the one you feed shapes your energy and health span

• The moment holding his newborn daughter dissolved Dr. V's belief that he wasn't enough

• How breathwork, stillness and connection help calm an inherited nervous system

• The message behind Dr. V's new book, I'm Possible

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You're eating healthy, but is your body actually absorbing any of it?

Most people focus on WHAT they eat. Almost nobody thinks about whether those nutrients actually make it to their cells.

In this episode of the Thrive State Podcast, Dr. V sits down with Doug Grant, founder of Optimal Health Systems and former nutritionist for the Phoenix Suns, at SoFi Stadium to break down the real science of nutrient absorption, digestion, and why your mindset might be the missing piece in your health journey.

From working with NBA athletes to training conventional doctors in nutrition-based health, Doug shares practical, immediately actionable strategies to get more out of every meal -- starting with something your grandmother already told you to do.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why eating healthy food isn't enough and what actually determines whether nutrients reach your cells

• The #1 free habit that improves digestion immediately (no supplements required)

• How stress and "fight or flight" mode silently sabotage your physical health

• Why conventional doctors are leaving traditional medicine to study nutrition

• How to create a daily "non-negotiable floor" across mindset, nutrition, exercise, and supplementation

• A simple pre-meal ritual that activates your parasympathetic nervous system for better digestion

• What "focused, intense thought" has to do with longevity and optimal health

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