In this deliciously nerdy and insightful episode, we’re joined by Sir Sublime—a self-proclaimed “lazy top,” kink toymaker, and connoisseur of all things rope, impact, and mindplay.

Together, we unwrap the art and intention behind BDSM, diving into the nuances of dominance, the seduction of sensory play, and why best practices matter in the kink world.

Whether you’re a seasoned sadist or just kink-curious, Sir Sublime reminds us that "everyone kinks their own way"—and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to pleasure and power. We talk toys, technique, trust, and what it means to top without burning out.

Along the way, we explore:
• Why negotiation isn’t just for boardrooms (but should still involve snacks)
• How consent can be sexy, sacred, and sometimes sound like a well-prepped PowerPoint
• And why aftercare might mean cuddles, cookies, or just not losing your rope scissors again

From nerdy obsessions to sexy confessions, this episode is a playful, practical, and passionate look into the world of consensual kink.

LINKS:

Sinfully Sublime | Sir Sublime's Toys

Douglas Kent | Sky (sic "Air")

Jay Wiseman | Books

In this episode of we take a moment to own our sh*t.

In the past, we might’ve made it sound like there’s only one right way to start a non-monogamous relationship. But thanks to some wise friends of the show—and a little bit of grown-folks (Foxy) "magic"—we realized we goofed. Non-monogamy isn’t a one-size-fits-all situation, and there are many ways to build strong, thriving, sexy connections right from the start.

So, we gathered around the mic with our extended poly pod squad for a heartfelt (and hilarious) roundtable. We revisit the conversation, acknowledge the error, and explore the beautifully diverse ways people enter non-monogamy with intention, flexibility, and love.

Tune in for some laughs, lessons, and the reminder that getting it wrong can sometimes lead to getting it really right

It’s time to clear the air, and maybe burst a few egos along the way!

In this episode Pinky & Ava get real about one of the most frustrating misconceptions in the non-monogamous world — that being open means being easy......Spoiler alert: We Don't "F@(k" Everybody!!!

The ladies share some cringe-worthy, hilarious, and downright annoying stories of people who thought “non-monogamous” was code for “no standards.” From awkward assumptions to bold propositions, they set the record straight on what it really means to be selective — even when you live life outside the lines.

If you’ve ever been misunderstood in your open relationships — or just want to hear some entertaining tea — cozy up and press play. Pajamas optional… standards required.