MUST WATCH: Prostate Cancer & the GBTQ+ Community

What Every Gay & Bisexual Man Needs to Know Before and After Treatment

If you are a GBTQ+ man diagnosed with prostate cancer — this conversation is for you.

Prostate cancer treatment discussions are often based on heterosexual data and erection-focused outcomes. But for many gay and bisexual men, sexuality, intimacy, identity, and role (top, bottom, versatile) matter in ways that are rarely addressed in clinic.

In this powerful and candid session, we discuss:

• Erectile dysfunction — beyond “can you get an erection?”
• Loss of ejaculation and what that means in the community
• Receptive anal sex after surgery vs radiation
• Penile shortening, climacturia, and real functional outcomes
• Hormone therapy and libido
• Sexual identity disruption
• Dating, disclosure, and relationship changes
• Treatment regret and mismatched expectations
• Psychological distress and isolation
• Why most existing research does NOT reflect gay men’s lived realities

We also examine the limitations of common tools like EPIC, which focus primarily on erectile firmness and frequency — while often missing libido, desire, sexual role identity, and psychological impact.

This session includes:
Dr. Christopher Wallis (Urology)
Dr. Rob Rutledge (Radiation Oncology)
Dr. Gabriela Ilie (Psychology & Digital Health Research)
And, most importantly — lived experiences from men in the GBTQ+ community.

One of the most important messages from this talk:

👉 Treatment decisions must align with YOUR priorities — not just cancer control statistics.
👉 Survivorship is not just PSA numbers. It’s quality of life, identity, and intimacy.
👉 If your physician is not asking the right questions — bring them yourself.

We are also actively studying and adapting survivorship care for GBTQ+ men through the PC-PEP program (supported by Movember), with early data showing meaningful mental health improvements when care is holistic and patient-centered. Please visit pcpep.org or pcpep.org/gbtq2-communities-and-pc-pep/ to learn more about the program or enrol.

This is not just a medical talk.
It is an advocacy conversation.

If you are newly diagnosed — watch this before making treatment decisions.
If you are post-treatment — you are not alone.
If you are a clinician — listen.

Please share this with any GBTQ+ man facing prostate cancer. To watch the You Tube recording of this talk go to: https://youtu.be/YxH5lOv6k0A

#ProstateCancer #GBTQHealth #LGBTQHealth #GayMenHealth #CancerSurvivorship #HealthEquity #Movember #PCPEP #SharedDecisionMaking

EMPOWER YOURSELF!

In this deeply human episode of the PC-PEP Podcast, Dr. Gabriela Ilie sits down with Mike and his wife Barb for an honest, unguarded conversation about what it really means to face prostate cancer together.

This episode brings something rare: the voice of the person diagnosed and the voice of the life partner walking alongside him. Not to offer advice or to “represent” anything beyond their own lived experience, but to share what happens when illness enters a shared life—and how two people stay close through uncertainty.

Mike speaks openly about his prostate cancer journey, including the long stretches of waiting, the emotional whiplash of appointments and decisions, and the ways treatment can affect daily life and identity. Barb shares the steady, often invisible reality of being a partner through it all—supporting without taking over, staying present without losing herself, and continuing to live while holding what’s hard.

Together, they reflect on:
- the shock and vulnerability of diagnosis
- the loneliness that can come from uncertainty and waiting
- how illness affects not only a body, but a relationship and a household
- and the quiet strength of showing up for one another, again and again

They also speak to the value of finding structure and support beyond the clinic—simple daily practices, grounding routines, and community. For them, empowerment isn’t loud or performative. It’s built through presence, consistency, and care.

Key messages of inspiration and hope:

1) Cancer is never only individual.
Illness is experienced in relationships. Partners are not on the sidelines—they are co-travellers.

2) Presence matters more than perfection.
There is no “right” way to do cancer. What helps most is showing up—imperfectly, steadily, together.

3) Information and routine can restore agency.
When the system feels overwhelming, small daily practices and credible guidance can help people feel less powerless.

4) Partners need care too.
Barb’s voice is a reminder that support must include the people who are holding the household, the fear, and the hope.

5) You are not alone.
Connection—through a partner, a trusted circle, or a supportive community—can be the difference between isolation and steadiness.

This episode is for anyone living with prostate cancer, loving someone who is, or trying to understand what truly helps when life is turned upside down. It is a reminder that people come before diagnoses—and that there is dignity in simply being human together.

🎧 Listen on Buzzsprout:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2420283/

📺 Watch on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/nBfZpSt7eSw

Available on podcast platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podcast Addict, iHeartRadio, Player FM, and more.


🌐 Learn more about PC-PEP: https://www.pcpep.org
For all cancers: https://www.cancerpep.org

This initiative is funded by Movember and delivered in partnership with PC-PEP at Dalhousie University.

Thank you for listening, and for holding this conversation with the same care it was shared.

EMPOWER YOURSELF!