Failure tends to feel personal. A missed opportunity. A mistake at work. A relationship ending. A plan falling apart. For a lot of us, failure doesn’t just feel like something that happened. It feels like evidence about who we are. In this episode, I’m with keynote and workshop speaker Tom Hicks to talk about what happened when a really difficult season of life unexpectedly led him to a set of juggling balls…and ultimately to a completely different relationship with failure. Tom now teaches people and organizations how to juggle while helping them rethink perfectionism, growth, resilience, and what it actually means to fail.

• Why so many high-achievers struggle with failure
• The difference between understanding growth mindset intellectually vs. actually experiencing it
• Why play matters more than we realize as adults
• How curiosity changes our relationship with mistakes
• The phrase “how fascinating” and why it’s more powerful than it sounds
• Why many “failures” are actually redirections
• The importance of kindness toward ourselves

One of my favorite parts of the conversation was this reminder…You already have the ability to navigate failure. You’ve been doing it your entire life. You may just need to reconnect with it. Also… it feels important to mention that we had multiple technology issues and recording glitches during this episode…which made the entire “how fascinating” conversation even more fitting. 😂

• Website: tom-hicks.com
• LinkedIn: Tom Hicks

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What if the thing you never saw coming…became the very thing that shaped how you move forward?

Laura Bratton was diagnosed with a rare eye disease as a child and lost her sight as a teenager…several years earlier than anyone expected.

We talk about what it looked like to navigate that kind of change in real time…without a roadmap, without certainty, and without the option to pause life while she figured it out.

But this conversation isn’t about blindness.

It’s about what happens when life doesn’t go the way you thought it would…and how you keep going anyway.

We explore what actually helped her move forward, how she learned to stop fighting reality, and why “enough” might be the most powerful shift of all.

• Grit and gratitude…together Not as buzzwords…but as real, usable resources. Why it’s not one or the other, and how the balance of both is what actually helps you move forward.
• Living in the moment (when everything feels overwhelming) When the future feels too big, too uncertain, too much…what it looks like to narrow your focus to today, and why that’s not giving up. It’s survival.
• Why “enough” matters more than you think How redefining what counts as “enough” can shift everything, especially in seasons of change, grief, or uncertainty.
• The stories we believe about strength Why pushing through, ignoring emotions, and being “fine” can actually make things harder…and what happens when you stop fighting what you feel.
• What real support actually looks like Not pity. Not fixing. Not making things easier. But people who believe in you…even when you don’t believe in yourself.
• The pressure of uncertainty (and how to navigate it) Why the uncertainty doesn’t go away…and what you can control instead.
• Letting yourself feel what’s real From anxiety to grief to anger…why turning toward your emotions (instead of pushing them down) changes everything.

At the age of nine, Laura was diagnosed with an eye disease and faced the difficult reality that she would become blind. Over the next ten years she experienced the traumatic transition of adjusting to life without sight. Laura adjusted to her new normal and was able to move forward in life as she graduated from Arizona State University with a BA in psychology. She then was the first blind student to receive her Masters of Divinity from Princeton Theological Seminary.

She is the author of the book, Harnessing Courage. Laura founded Ubi Global, which is an organization that provides speaking and coaching to empower all people to overcome challenges and obstacles with grit and gratitude.

• Website: https: laurabratton.com
• Video Highlight Reel: Speaker Reel

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Do you love dandelions…or hate them?

Because people tend to have very strong opinions about this.

In this episode, I share why I still love them…even knowing everything that comes with them… a really simple example of something we do all the time.

Two people can look at the exact same thing…and see something completely different.

Same situation. Same conversation. Same moment.

Completely different reactions.

And when that happens, we often assume the other person just doesn’t get it.

But what if it’s not that they don’t understand…

What if they’re just seeing something different?

We explore what’s actually driving those reactions, why it creates so much unnecessary friction, and how expanding your capacity for difference can make things feel a whole lot easier.

Because it’s usually not about the dandelion. 😉

Same thing, different experience Why two people can look at the exact same situation and walk away with completely different interpretations…and why that’s more normal than we think.

It’s not just the moment How past experiences, beliefs, preferences, and expectations shape how we see and respond to things (often without us even realizing it).

“They just don’t get it…” Why we assume others are wrong or missing something…and what’s actually happening instead.

Capacity for difference What it is, why it matters, and how expanding it reduces tension in conversations, relationships, and everyday interactions.

Letting go of the need to convince Why there isn’t always a clear right or wrong…and how much easier things feel when we stop trying to force it.

Where are the “dandelions” showing up in your life right now?

What’s something you feel strongly about…that someone else sees completely differently?

And what might they be seeing that you’re not?

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