Marriage isn’t about getting what you want—it’s about getting each other to heaven.

In this episode of The Catholic Couple, Bobby and Katie unpack one of the most counter-cultural truths of Catholic marriage: the path to holiness is paved with interruptions, inconveniences, sacrifice, and the Cross.

From daily annoyances to seasons of real suffering, marriage constantly invites us to die to ourselves. In this conversation, we talk honestly about:

• Why marriage is full of interruptions (and why that’s not a mistake)
• Doing things you don’t want to do—and how that forms virtue
• How spouses become each other’s crosses
• Why inconveniences are actually graces
• How sacrifice sanctifies us and makes us more like Christ
• The true purpose of marriage: mutual sanctification and salvation

Catholic marriage isn’t about comfort, happiness, or self-fulfillment. It’s about love that costs something. Love that looks like the Cross. Love that transforms us if we let it.

Whether you’re newly married, struggling, or decades in, this episode will challenge how you view marriage—and invite you to see even the hardest moments as opportunities for grace.

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In this episode, we unpack a powerful article we discussed on the show that tackles one of the most pressing questions of our digital age: What is an algorithm, really—and what is it doing to our souls? with guest, TJ Burdick

we explore how modern AI systems are not neutral tools, but machines designed to exploit our weaknesses, feed our vices, and keep us addicted to a hyper-reality that slowly pulls us away from real life, real relationships, and ultimately, God.

We dive into his article on CatholicExchange.com

• Why algorithms are not “smart” in the human sense
• How hyper-reality fuels addiction, isolation, and despair
• The spiritual and psychological cost of constant digital consumption
• Why only humans—not machines—can love, sacrifice, and seek the common good
• What a truly Catholic use of technology looks like in a world dominated by AI

This episode isn’t anti-technology—it’s a call to choose reality, practice virtue, and reclaim our humanity before ethics are completely removed from the digital systems shaping our lives.

As St. Paul reminds us, we weren’t made to finish the doomscroll—we were made to finish the race.

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What if improving your marriage didn’t require a major overhaul—but a return to a few simple, intentional habits?

In this episode of The Catholic Couple Podcast, we break down four powerful marriage habits inspired by a viral clip from Arthur Brooks (Harvard professor and happiness researcher) that he shared on the Tim Ferriss Podcast. While Arthur Brooks approaches marriage from science and psychology, we show how his insights beautifully align with Catholic teaching, Sacred Scripture, and the wisdom of the saints.

Arthur Brooks challenges the idea that struggling marriages should immediately default to therapy alone. While therapy can help, he argues that many marriages heal not by digging up more past wounds—but by pouring in more joy, connection, and intentional love.

Using his “dirty cup” analogy, we explore how adding the right habits can push out resentment and rebuild intimacy.

In this episode, we discuss:

✔️ Why having more fun together matters and how many couples stop dating after marriage
✔️ How praying together—not just saying prayers—deepens spiritual and emotional intimacy
✔️ Why eye contact is essential for connection, trust, and feeling truly seen
✔️ The importance of physical touch in marriage, especially for men, and how it communicates love beyond words

We connect each habit to:
📖 Scripture
⛪ Catholic teaching and the Catechism
✨ Quotes and insights from the saints
🧠 Modern science and relationship research

Whether your marriage is thriving or feeling stuck, these four habits can help you strengthen your bond, grow in holiness together, and rediscover joy in your vocation.

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Great marriages aren’t found—they’re built. One intentional habit at a time.

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