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  • When She Turned Cheating Into a Business Plan.... - S9E3
    Jan 27 2026

    The week we're raising awareness for Refuge in the UK: https://refuge.org.uk/

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    If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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    33 min
  • Break Down Bonus: How to trust a new partner after an unhealthy relationship w/ Dr. Margaret Rutherford (Replay)
    Jan 15 2026

    This episode originally aired in 2023

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    [SCROLL FOR CW]

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    Are you having a hard time trusting your new partner after your last relationship? Your ex may have damaged your ability to trust again, but you don't have to live in fear forever. Dr. Margaret Rutherford joins Abby to talk about what you can to have a healthy relationship with your new partner.

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    Check out Dr. Margaret Rutherford's:

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    Website: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/

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    Podcast: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/selfwork/

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    Timestamps:

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    (00:00): Introducing the episode

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    (00:42): The key to learning to trust again.....

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    (06:45): How to not use relationships for validation

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    (09:47): How to build up your own self-worth

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    (11:54): How to trust a new partner after getting cheated on

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    (13:44): How do I leave a manipulative relationship?

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    (14:33): When do I draw boundaries OR when do I leave if I feel like I'm being gaslit?

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    (19:05): Final piece of advice for building a strong sense of self

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    [CW: Abuse]

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    21 min
  • When her fiancee disappeared for days.... - S9E2
    Jan 13 2026

    [SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]

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    The week we're raising awareness for the South carolina coalition against domestic violence: https://www.sccadvasa.org/

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    If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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    Follow the podcast!

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    [CW: Suicidal Ideation]

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    23 min
  • How your high school relationship impacts your future w/ Amy from New Perspectives | Break Down Bonus Replay
    Jan 8 2026

    This episode originally aired in August 2023

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    Amy from New Perspectives: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/

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    23 min
  • When she called to divorce him and heard gunshots over the phone.... - S9E1
    Jan 6 2026

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    The week we're raising awareness for the Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/about-hubbard-house/

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    If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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    Follow the podcast!

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    The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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    [CW: Mention of Suicide, Intimate Partner Violence]

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    33 min
  • When the break ups went unsolved in season 8.... - Season 8 Finale
    Dec 30 2025

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    32 min
  • The connection between narcissism and serial cheating | Break Down Bonus (replay)
    Dec 11 2025

    Also check out....Getting Over The Person You Thought You Would Marry: https://www.podcastrepublic.net/podcast/1594917373

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    18 min
  • When the other woman ruined her engagement plans.... - S8E19
    Dec 9 2025

    The week we're raising awareness for the Marjaree Mason Center in Fresno, CA: https://mmcenter.org/

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    If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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    Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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    Follow the podcast!

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    The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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    18 min