Somewhere along the way, liking (or not liking) someone’s instagram posts has become an act of politics. We like the things we stand for—or at the very least, the things we want to be seen caring about. So when someone you care about doesn’t give your post that double tap, it feels vindictive. But then again, isn’t it possible someone just didn’t see it? In any case, if you cared about us at all, you’d like our posts. And if you really want to show us you care, then leave a comment, too.

A new career for Danny [1:44]

Do your friends and family need to interact with your content? [15:51]

Are we “voting” with our likes? [19:03]

People hate-following you [23:11]

The politics of commenting [27:45]

Public call-outs [33:05]

Love this! [35:15]

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It’s a brand new year, so now is the perfect time to think about what we want the next 365 days of our lives to look like. Things feel fresh and we’re finding ourselves craving some routine, so for this episode we did something we hardly ever do—we thought about what we were going to talk about ahead of time. So today, we’re sharing all of our “in’s” and “out’s” for 2026. We learned a lot in 2025, both personally and professionally, so there are things we’re eager to keep doing and things we’re ready to leave behind.

The future will blow our minds [1:33]

Craving routine at this time of year [5:43]

2026 In’s and Out’s [9:24]

The fear that good things will never last [10:48]

No more “vanilla” content [13:13]

Niceties for the sake of niceness is out [14:41]

Building an identity separate from going through infidelity [19:26]

Letting go of shame and self-hatred [24:06]

New year, new last name [28:26]

Taking really good care of ourselves [33:52]

Being more unapologetic [36:52]

Doubling down on our personal brands [44:24]

Falling in love with Hyrox [47:38]

Finding things to look forward to and work towards [49:54]

Money and intentional travel [51:15]

Showing up more on camera [55:42]

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As we get deeper and deeper into our 40’s, we’re finding ourselves less impressed with whatever everyone else is up to. Flashy lives and high follower accounts feel kind of meaningless and we’re happy to watch the next generation make all the same mistakes we did and care about all the things we used to. Having a million followers doesn’t mean you have a million dollars, and having a million dollars doesn’t mean you’re even happy. We’ll stick to doing what feels right to us and having conversations with interesting people, instead of influential people.

Getting our boobs checked out [3:50]

Curating friendships in our 40’s [7:02]

“Success” feels less impressive now [11:28]

Visibility isn’t the same thing as success [14:48]

We’re passing the baton [18:40]

History repeats itself [20:51]

You’re allowed to change your mind [24:48]

The Best Life Live? [28:58]

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