Let's unpack EVERYTHING about masturbation: desires and kinks, early conditioning, unpairing yourself from your partner, shame and sexual shadow work.

Let's talk porn, toys, and sexual scripts.

Let's talk about taoist energy circulation, breathwork, sounding, & movement, to expand your pleasure.

And finally, let's figure out what kinds of masturbation are right - and wrong - for YOU.

Let's go over Oral Sex as a Barometer for your relationship. Hidden resentment, lack of trust in your partner, and discomfort in your own body are some common blocks to our giving and receiving love in this way. Such magic happens when you allow yourself to be Fed by your partner's genitals, when you Surrender. Tasting yourself first can be a beautiful practice to get you started.

We'll also unpack sucking soft dick, differently shaped pussy lips, and the buffoonery of condoms. Plus, how to conserve your sexual energy, and how your body tells you Very Clearly when you're with a misaligned partner.

Listen here for my advice on getting past blocks, my first-hand stories, & some sexy tips! All with the goal that everyone goes down on each other waaay more. Enjoy. ;)

Over the past year I have honed my Tantric Embodiment practice into the deepest work I know: Dearmouring. And SO MANY of you have asked me wtf this is, so I've decided to make a longass podcast episode explaining everything - from my personal experience, to what it feels like to receive this style of bodywork, to how to practise dearmouring through meditation and dance. There are so many keys: breath, sound, movement, relaxation, non-attachment. Shadow work. Presence. Love.

We'll talk about common physical body armours (sexual dysfunction and pain, weight gain distribution, chronic pain), as well as the energetics of thought/habit patterns (eg making yourself small, control, avoidance). There is also lots of discussion on plant medicines, sobriety, and Vipassana meditation.

This is a discourse-style podcast, best listened to continuously and with presence. I can't wait to read all your messages & comments.

Happy Listening xx.

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Two hours of me answering my Most Ask Questions lmaoo... buckle up!

How did I get into the industry? What is the worker demographic - educated? Cokeheads?? Is there drama? What are the clients like? Is it safe? How do we practise safe sex?!

Also I define many of the common abbreviations, so you'll be an expert by the end of this. ;)

Being a sex worker in Toronto has been such a fucking wild ride - pleasurable, curious, scary at times... having something so deep in common with the girls I work with... :) It's also led to an Extreme Dissolution of my Sexual Spiritual Ego.

How can you be passive and receptive to a man (and his cock), without dissociating? Dissociation is a super common trauma response, and one that's tricky to notice while you're in it.

How does being sexual with clients all day affect my real-life sex drive? How much mismatch is there between the integrity-rooted work I do with clients, vs. the "hand hooking" for money? My "sexual desires" in male clients have become the opposite to those I have in my real life.

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This is all just one woman's opinion :D I wanted to shed some light on my 2 months' (so far!) experience in this industry in Toronto. Happy listening y'all xxx!

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UNPOPULAR OPINION ALERT;)

Bring back kink-shaming LOL! Vanilla sex is the best sex!! OBV I love being choked out & ravished as much as any rational girlie.. but stop using this shit as overcompensation for bad dick lmfao.

Lemme give voice to the "vanilla" girlies for the next hour - missionary, eye-gazing, and all. And kissing befooore butt stuff lol PLZ.

Wowwww hello sexy people! This is my first episode back after a LONGASS 4 MONTH HIATUS!! Woo!

This episode was inspired by a couple recent relationships in my life that... left my Inner Child REELING. This is a discussion-based episode (everyone's favourite kind) with tons of personal stories of my good, bad, & ugly dating L's.

The pathway of Love Addiction follows the pathway of ALL addiction - here I compare it to my experiences with weed, alcohol, and food as well.

So if you want a deep dive into super grey area themes, nothing cut and dry, nothing predetermined for ya... then get your flip flops, find a forest, and enjoy a nice PodWalk. ;)

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