• Outgrowing Your Sexual Persona
• Who were you when you first came out sexually? The hosts discuss...
• What labels did you grow into that no longer feel true?
• What parts of your sexuality have evolved with age?
• What messages did you internalize about aging as a gay man?
• What does sexy look like now vs 10 years ago?
• Sex Work, Power & Self-Expression
• Hot Topic: The Grammy's! We breakdown from the performances to who wore what...
• Hot Topic: Would you choose an app that organizes dinner parties with queer strangers?
• Hot Topic: The tale of the lesbian who drove 10 miles to spend a week with someone they met online...

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What are some default settings gay men are taught?

• Chase validation

• Separate sex from emotion

• Confuse chaos with chemistry

• Avoid vulnerability

• Use apps for distraction instead of connection

• Treat intimacy as weakness

• Perform confidence instead of build it

• When our internal system needs a reboot
• The hosts share how they are rebooting both sexually and in their relationships...
• Hot Topic: Potential lawsuit for OF?
• Hot Topic: Ashton Kutcher on being called 'too fat' by Tom Ford...
• Hot Topic: Deviant Events isn't allowed to promote events on Meta...
• Hot Topic: Opinion on Karamo Brown and his choice not to show up...
• Hot Topic: Nicki Minaj is Team Trump!

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• We breakdown how some gay men are obsessed with being bigger based on a recent mini-doc "Behind the Bulk: The Hidden World of Gay Men on Steroids"
• The hosts share their own stories on their bodies, working out and how that has affected dating and more...
• “If anorexia is the terror of not being thin enough, swolexia is the terror of not being big enough,” narratively describing how these mirror anxieties function as opposite poles of the same disorder.
• In the gay community, these pressures can be intensified by the gay look: muscular, lean, polished, photographed — a perceived currency in social/romantic markets.
• Some clinicians and community members argue that muscle dysmorphia has become one of the most significant body image issues impacting gay men, almost like a parallel crisis to HIV/AIDS in its psychological and social impact. We discuss...
• Advice: We offer advice related to today's topic on whether or not someone should go on dates if they are struggling with body image?
• Hot Topic: What are some red flags guys in their 50's should look out for when going on dates?
• Hot Topic: It's all things "Heated Rivalry" - The show that keeps on giving...

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• Queerty collected a range of reader replies about locker-room encounters among men — showing sexual play in communal spaces has been part of queer culture lore.
• These spaces historically served as both physical and emotional zones where queer desire could surface when other options were limited.
• Have any of you ever felt that gyms/saunas were more than just physical spaces — maybe sites of connection, tension, or curiosity?
• How does queer sexual culture shape identity and memory for you?
• The difference between connection with meaning vs. just seeking physical moments.
• The hosts share whether or not sex came first or queer friendship?
• The hosts share unique early experiences of sex and friendship...
• Whether we’re talking about queer cruising culture or modern meetups, it’s really about how we show up for connection — and how that shapes who we are.
• Hot Topic: Karamo Brown doesn't show up to promote final season of Queer Eye....we dig into the drama...
• Hot Topic: Dr. Andre K wants us all to know what's really in our poppers and what it's doing to us...
• Hot Topic: 17 male hockey players have come out as gay but none of them are NHL...
• Hot Topic: Drag Queen Lauren Banal went viral for Erika Kirk rendition and now is using her platform to raise money for ACLU
• Advice: They went on a dinner date and he realized he had already chatted with him on a more sexual site before...
• Advice: When you don't drink can you still have fun at the club?

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• It’s not just bad apps or lack of flashy photos — the real challenge of gay dating is that many men carry early-life conditioning around intimacy, rejection, and safety, which makes closeness feel threatening.
• Have you ever felt simultaneously craving connection and bracing for rejection?
• Do you think apps reward detachment over vulnerability?
• Endless profiles = decision paralysis
• Swipe interfaces can train people to value looks more than connection
• How can you build confidence even when a date doesn’t go perfectly?
• The hosts share their personal dating stories, horror stories, how they met their partners, what growth they had to endure to be who they are today...
• The Portal is You - Morning and Evening FREE Ceremonies - ThePortalisYou.com
• Hot Topic: Nicki Minaj goes after Don Lemmon with a homophobic attack??
• Hot Topic: Florida Gubernatorial Candidate wants to tax OnlyFans creators 50%...
• Hot Topic: The Traitors - Colton Underwood vs. Michael Rapaport...
• Hot Topic: Jeffree Star under fire for ICE jokes...
• Hot Topic: Ricky Martin hangs with Hudson Williams in Milan!
• Hot Topic: The loss of legendary Valentino...

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• Aging as a privilege in the LGBTQ+ community

• The fact that many of us didn’t always imagine ourselves getting older

• Letting go of youth obsessed culture...
• Shifting from validation to self-assurance
• Does sex change as we age?
• Taking care of our gay health as we age...our sexuality makes our gay health unique
• Problems or issues that can arise as we age
• Aging as becoming more your as opposed to less you...
• Hot Topic: The Maryland woman who attacked a gay man in a grocery store has been arrested!
• Hot Topic: Matt Rogers says he'll do better amid his attacks on Rep. Jasmine Crockett....
• Hot Topic: Joel Kim Booster ties the knot!
• Hot Topic: Wanda Sykes accepts the award for Ricky Gervais and thanks the Trans Community for him!
• Advice: Pair of Tops struggling with sex...
• Advice: Using sex as a means to an end...

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• Tonight's Sex Talk is based on gay therapist, Brian Spitulnik's take on "Heated Rivalry" and how gays emulate these types of gay relationships which may not be healthy for us....
• The hosts discuss past unhealthy relationships...
• Why we love watching 'Heated Rivalry'
• Intensity ≠ intimacy
• Obsession ≠ commitment
• Fantasy can be hot without becoming a blueprint
• “The love that changes your life doesn’t feel like a rivalry—it feels like relief.”
• Hot Topic: 0-1B Visa for Only Fans models?
• Hot Topic: List of things caught inside penises in the emergency room...
• Hot Topic: Gavin Newsom's press office roasts MAGA investigators...
• Hot Topic: More father/son duos on OF...
• Advice: How to ask a guy out at the gym..
• Advice: Can a relationship get back together?

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• The hosts are back and share their holiday and New Year's recent plans
• The hosts share their sex and relationship goals for the new year...
• Predictions and forecasts for the new year in sex and relationships including: Deeper Connections in sex and love due to 'Heated Rivalry', App Fatigue, A.I., Meeting in Public, Sexual Health and more.
• Hot Topic: List of things stuck in rectums from the emergency room you won't believe it...
• Hot Topic: Tyler Perry faces another accusations on sexual misconduct
• Hot Topic: Did you hear about the father and son Onlyfans duo?
• Hot Topic: JLO claps back and the best way possible...
• Advice: Thoughts on couples that sleep in separate bedrooms...?
• Advice: Single and back in the game. What should he write in his profile?
• Advice: Where to travel for a sexy gay vacation this year?

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