In this episode of The Stroke It Podcast, Jenny sits down with leadership trainer and coach Mbo’a Pascal for a powerful, practical conversation about personal wiring, discipline, and building sustainable success as both a leader and a human.

Mbo’a shares how growth starts with awareness, acceptance, and adjustment—and why most people stay stuck because they never examine the subconscious patterns driving how they think, work, communicate, and relate to others. You’ll hear how being “high energy” and full of ideas can actually sabotage progress without structure, and why discipline—not motivation—is what turns vision into results.

Jenny brings real-life examples from running a business for ten years, managing teams with very different personalities, and navigating the constant challenge of staying focused instead of chasing every new idea. Together, they unpack how understanding your wiring can help you stop trying to do everything yourself and start building systems—and teams—that actually support growth.

They also explore workplace dynamics, including how leaders can treat employees the way they want to be treated, why DISC personality awareness changes communication, and how to connect an employee’s personal dreams to the company’s mission for deeper engagement. The episode wraps with a simple but powerful action step anyone can take to begin rewiring their leadership and life.

Connect with Mbo’a Pascal
Website / Free DISC Assessment / Resources: https://mpenvisions.com/

Chapters

00:00 – Welcome + why this conversation matters for leaders
01:40 – Mbo’a’s season of life + constant adjustment
04:10 – How he got into leadership wiring and human behavior
07:30 – Idea energy vs. discipline: the formula for disaster
10:50 – Hiring executors vs. trying to do everything yourself
14:20 – Jenny’s “step away from the business” turning point
17:10 – The 4 wiring types: ideas, execution, support, systems
20:45 – When to launch an idea vs. staying focused
24:30 – Creating space for creativity if it doesn’t come naturally
27:15 – Employees, communication, and treating people how they want
31:10 – Cultural differences + leadership communication styles
34:40 – Mental health, self-awareness, and hiring aligned people
38:00 – Connecting employee dreams to company vision
41:20 – How to help people dream bigger and believe it’s possible
44:10 – Final advice: DISC, awareness, and intentional adjustment
46:20 – Where to connect with Mbo’a + free assessment

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In this episode of The Stroke It Podcast, Jenny sits down with financial coach and author Scott Yamamura for a practical, mindset-shifting conversation about financial literacy, behavior, and building real momentum with money—especially at the start of a new year.

Scott shares how he went from feeling like an “imposter” with personal finance to creating a simple framework he calls the Three Financial Epiphanies—easy rules of thumb designed to make money feel less overwhelming and more actionable. You’ll hear why he believes personal finance is mostly behavior, how marketing and “normal” spending habits quietly keep people stuck, and what it looks like to take ownership of your financial future without getting buried in complexity.

Jenny brings real-life examples from running a business, managing shifting cash flow, and watching common spending patterns (hello, Starbucks and daily takeout) derail otherwise capable people. Together, they talk through practical ways to audit spending, reduce debt, start investing at any level, and build confidence over time.

They also cover student loans and the pressure to follow the “default path,” plus a powerful story about front-loading a 529 plan and letting compounding do the heavy lifting. The episode wraps with advice for couples—why money tension is common, how to create shared alignment, and how understanding your “multiplying power” can help spouses work as a team.

Connect with Scott
Website / Book / Resources: FinancialEpiphany.com

Chapters
00:00 – Welcome + why this conversation fits the start of the year
01:09 – Scott’s season of life + how his journey into finance began
03:20 – Feeling financially “behind” and why money is mostly behavior
06:40 – The “Three Financial Epiphanies” explained (simple rules of thumb)
11:30 – Why most people look fine financially… until they don’t
14:10 – Paycheck-to-paycheck, debt, and the “path of snares and traps”
18:45 – How to start if you’re broke, stressed, or overwhelmed
22:30 – Student loans, college pressure, and being intentional
28:10 – The 529 front-load story: saving early and letting time work
33:00 – Where to invest (401(k), brokerage firms, and starting small)
36:30 – Daily spending habits that quietly drain future freedom
39:20 – Abundance mindset + taking ownership of your financial choices
41:30 – Marriage and money: teamwork, accountability, and “budget dates”
44:10 – Final takeaway: the 3 rules Scott wants you to remember
44:50 – Where to connect with Scott + closing call-to-action

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In this episode of The Stroke It Podcast, Jenny sits down with attorney and podcast host Alexis Rosenberg (aka LitigationLex) for a real conversation about relationships—at work, at home, and with friends.

They dig into what it actually takes to work with your spouse without letting work consume your marriage, why clear boundaries matter (and how to set them), and how Alexis stays productive without overcomplicating her schedule.

You’ll also hear how her law firm has adapted post-COVID with remote staff, the challenges of training and onboarding virtually, and the practical systems she uses to keep people engaged—without pretending every workplace is a “family.”

Finally, they talk about friendships and “finding your tribe,” including the difference between support and emotional dumping—and why having friends in different seasons of life matters.

Connect with Alexis

Social (TikTok/Instagram/Facebook): @litigationlex
Law firm / fractional general counsel: Rosenberg Law (https://rosenberglawpa.com/alexis-rosenberg/)
Course: Will be released under LitigationLex

Chapters

00:00 – Friends aren’t your therapist
00:13 – Intro to the show
00:27 – Meet Alexis Rosenberg (LitigationLax)
01:09 – Working with your spouse: what makes it work
02:43 – The “division of labor” rule (and tiebreakers)
03:57 – Protecting home time: no work talk boundaries
06:52 – Venting vs problem-solving communication
08:00 – Balance, productivity, and travel as a reset
10:19 – Spontaneous trips (Paris in 24 hours)
13:17 – Packing carry-on only (and why shoes are the enemy)
16:53 – Managing a remote team: training and engagement
19:36 – AI for onboarding and internal “how do I?” questions
21:42 – Retention: PTO, respect, and being heard
23:08 – Culture without the “we’re a family” cliché
27:13 – PTO policies, trust, and avoiding resentment
32:05 – Employees on your personal social media
33:29 – The upcoming course + fractional general counsel
38:43 – Friendships, seasons of life, and building your tribe
42:09 – Closing advice: decide what you really want
43:57 – Where to connect with Alexis
44:13 – Final call-to-action

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Did you know there are free downloads available on my website? Go to All Products | Jenny Alday Townsend and snag the 4 Ground Rules to Elevate your life. Planning your future? Develop your 1-3-5 and change your life path!