In this powerful conversation, Stacey Womack, founder and executive director of Abuse Recovery Ministry Services (ARMS), shares her 28 years of experience helping abuse survivors and those who use abusive behaviors.
Stacey discusses:
- Why churches struggle to address domestic abuse (and often become the least helpful resource)
- The 8 forms of abuse beyond physical violence—including the "worst" form victims identify
- How power and control dynamics differ from normal conflict- The dangerous misconception that couples counseling can fix abusive relationships- Why knowledge alone doesn't create change—and what does
- Her year-long intervention program that teaches men to "love like Jesus loves"
- The critical importance of safety planning and why leaving is the most dangerous time
- How women's health deteriorates under chronic abuse—and can recover after leavingStacey challenges common church teachings about submission, reveals why male victims face unique barriers, and explains why their programs remain free after nearly three decades.
Resources mentioned:
- Website: abuserecovery.org
- Book: "On the Front Lines of Abuse: Strategies for the Faith Community"
- Programs: Her Journey (recovery for women), intervention programs for men and womenCritical stats: 1 in 3 women experience domestic violence, sexual assault, or stalking by an intimate partner. 75% of homicides happen after separation.If you or someone you know needs support, visit abuserecovery.org for free, confidential resources.
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