Turning 44 isn’t a punchline for me. It’s a line in the sand.
I’m looking back at the years that shaped me while looking forward with a different kind of urgency—the kind that shows up when you realize you might already be past the halfway point of your life.
That thought could make you spiral. For me, it’s turned into gratitude, faith, and a clearer picture of what actually matters when the noise fades out.
In this episode, I talk about why I matured late, why I chose to become a father later in life, and how that timing changed everything.
I share stories from birthdays past that are equal parts funny and brutal—including the kind of partying that can land you in the hospital—and then the hard contrast of what a “perfect” birthday looks like now: quiet time with my wife and little girl, cartoons, and celebrating potty training like it’s the biggest win on earth.
Because somewhere along the way, your definition of a good life changes.
We also dig into redefining success. I’m done letting success mean stuff, status, or constantly chasing the next thing. For me, it’s faith, family, and freedom—the freedom to be present, build security, and create the kind of experiences that become lifelong memories.
Along the way, I talk about grief, loss, the struggles I’ve lived through, and how those experiences gave me perspective and a deeper drive to fulfill my purpose.
If you’ve been thinking about getting older, gratitude, fatherhood, mental health, faith, or what a meaningful life actually looks like, come hang with us.
This is 44. This is the reset. And this is gratitude.
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