Today, I get to sit down with someone whose brain I’ve wanted to borrow for a long time. My guest is Victoria Hudson, the founder and clinical powerhouse behind Restorative Resilience Counseling. She’s one of those rare therapists who has lived on the front lines of justice work, spending nearly fifteen years advocating for survivors of sexual exploitation and trafficking before bringing that fire and depth into clinical practice.

Victoria has built a therapeutic space that’s honest, curious, trauma-informed, sex-positive, and radically welcoming. What’s especially exciting is that she’s now intentionally expanding beyond a traditional private practice model, growing Restorative Resilience into a broader wellness community that treats the wellbeing of clinicians as just as essential as the care we provide to clients. Her vision is slow, thoughtful, and deeply strategic, investing in clinicians at every stage of their professional journey and celebrating the real, hard-won progress toward more accessible and humanizing care becoming the norm rather than the exception.

She works with people who’ve spent years being dismissed or misunderstood, whether that’s because they’re neurodivergent, chronically ill, recovering from abuse, or trying to reclaim their identity after a lifetime of being told who they’re supposed to be. She’s the clinician people seek out when they’re ready to challenge old narratives, explore consent and autonomy in real ways, and finally put themselves back at the center of their own life.

Victoria describes therapy as a ‘creative exploration of possibilities,’ which is exactly the kind of phrase that tells you she’s both brilliant and grounded. Her work lives at the intersection of trauma, chronic illness, identity, sexuality, empowerment, and clinician sustainability, and she approaches all of it with a clarity and compassion that makes complicated things feel human again.

So today, we’re diving into all of it: consent as a lived experience, the overlaps between trauma and neurodivergence, why so many clients with dysautonomia end up running self-advocacy marathons, what empowerment actually looks like in daily practice, how clinicians survive systems that were never built for them, and how healing becomes possible when someone finally has permission to speak their truth.

This is going to be smart, tender, nerdy, a little rebellious, and genuinely transformative. This is The Sexy Nerd Podcast, and I am thrilled to welcome the incredible Victoria Hudson.”

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Kaytlin Bailey is a sex worker rights advocate, comedian, and writer, best known as the Founder and Executive Director of Old Pros, a nonprofit media organization dedicated to reshaping society’s understanding of sex work. She is the creator and host of The Oldest Profession Podcast, where each episode spotlights a historical “old pro”—her term for exploring the lives and legacies of sex workers across time. Her acclaimed one-woman shows include The Oldest Profession, a sweeping 10,000-year tour of history from a sex worker’s perspective, and Cuntagious, which she debuted in 2015.

Before launching Old Pros, Kaytlin served as the founding Director of Communications for Decriminalize Sex Work, an advocacy organization deeply shaped by her own experiences navigating the fallout from SESTA/FOSTA. Her work has been featured in major outlets, and she has spoken at universities including Yale Law School, the University of Pennsylvania, and UCLA.

I had the privilege of discussing history, decriminalization, and the beautiful sex worker community with Kaitlyn. It was amazing. Here are her links

Website- https://oldprosonline.org

Podcast(Spotify) https://open.spotify.com/show/2QbyAjZ7aNJFSgL0R8sa2y?si=5d24ddaf527b4ae8

Podcast (Apple) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-oldest-profession-podcast/id1296601569

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The Sexy Nerd Podcast is a Champion of sex, inclusion, psychotherapy, and just plain nerdiness. I got the chance to sit down with Ambrosia Ross. She is one of the founders of Theatre of Dice, an online D&D business that operates an inclusive gaming outlet. We discuss gaming in an inclusive space. This is very important in the Nerd Community. Check out our talk. Below are the links for Theatre of Dice if you are Interested

Youtube:

https://www.youtube.com/@TheaterOfDice

Tik Tok:

https://www.tiktok.com/@theaterofdice

Patreon:

https://www.patreon.com/TheaterofDice

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/theaterofdice

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https://www.threads.com/@theaterofdice

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