Joyce Fidler’s life has been anything but ordinary. For 20 years, she lived the
quintessential rock ‘n’ roll lifestyle—owning a record store and headshop, singing in new wave bands, and embracing a wild, rebellious spirit. But when polyamory blew up her first marriage, she found herself at a crossroads. A radical transformation followed: Joyce got sober, moved to Los Angeles, and spent the next 23 years as a dedicated special educator, shaping young minds and creating impact far beyond the stage.

Now, with 34 years of sobriety and 25 years of marriage to a man 12 years her junior, Joyce shares her powerful story in her memoir, Evolution of a Baby Boomer: Life Beyond Sex, Drugs and Rock ‘n’ Roll. Her journey of reinvention is raw, real, and deeply inspiring—proof that it’s never too late to rewrite your story.
Join us as we dive into Joyce’s past, her lessons on love, addiction, and transformation, and what she’s learned from a life of second chances.

Welcome to Rule 42, Joyce Fidler!

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Today on Rule 42, we have the honor of speaking with an extraordinary woman whose courage and resilience have transformed unimaginable pain into a mission of hope and empowerment. Amanda Collins Johnson is the author of Beyond Survival: Reclaiming My Life After I Survived Rape, a powerful memoir that chronicles her journey from surviving a brutal attack during her college years to reclaiming a life of purpose, joy, and fulfillment.

Amanda’s story is not just one of survival but of triumph. She has dedicated her life to leading others out of the darkness of trauma and into the light of healing. Through her inspiring talks at college campuses, women’s conferences, and law enforcement events, Amanda has impacted countless lives, offering hope to survivors and a deeper understanding to those who support them.

Beyond her advocacy, Amanda is also a devoted wife to her husband Nate, a homeschooling mom to their three beautiful daughters, and a woman of deep faith who finds joy in mentoring young women, leading Bible studies, and running. Her ability to balance these roles with her powerful mission is a testament to her incredible strength and unwavering spirit.

Join us as Amanda shares her remarkable journey, lessons, and insights on how we can all move beyond survival to embrace a life of meaning and purpose.

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Today on Rule 42, we welcome a woman whose journey is a testament to the power of perseverance, transformation, and the unwavering belief that hope is a brave and deliberate decision.

Alison Beder Solway is a debut author whose memoir, The Miles We Run, delves into the deeply personal themes of surrogacy, fertility, and endurance—both physical and emotional. Through her story, she explores what it truly means to push through life’s greatest challenges and emerge stronger on the other side.

Beyond her work as an author, Alison is the founder of ABS Fitness, an online platform dedicated to helping women build strength and resilience at any stage of life. With a profound understanding of the connection between mind and body, she empowers women to redefine their limits—proving that growth doesn’t stop at any age. At 53, she continues to challenge common misconceptions about fitness in midlife, demonstrating firsthand that discipline, mindset, and physical training are deeply intertwined.

Alison’s career path is as dynamic as her personal journey. She holds a Master of Science in Environmental Management and has worked extensively in policy development, university education, and corporate sustainability before transitioning to the world of fitness and writing. Her ability to bridge seemingly disparate fields speaks to her adaptability, curiosity, and relentless drive for impact.

She has also undertaken one of the most grueling endurance challenges—training for the New York City Marathon—an experience that has further shaped her philosophy on perseverance and mental toughness. Her story is one of transformation, from navigating the complexities of surrogacy 25 years ago to pushing her body and mind to new limits today.

Whether through her writing, coaching, or personal journey, Alison inspires others to embrace resilience, push past fear, and trust in their own strength. We are honored to have her here today to share her wisdom, experiences, and insights into what it truly means to live with purpose, passion, and unwavering determination on Rule 42!

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