Most people think pain is something to be avoided. We avoid difficult conversations, uncomfortable situations, failure, uncertainty, and anything else we expect will hurt. So many people would agree with the sentiment that avoiding pain is a good thing.

But what if that’s an illusion?

In this episode of No More Illusions, Joe Kwon, The Connection Counselor, explores the role pain plays in our personal and professional development—and why the pain itself may not be the biggest problem. The real issue may be what happens when we resist the reality that caused it.

You’ll learn:

• Why pain can be a signal rather than something that needs to be eliminated
• How avoiding pain can also mean avoiding growth and transformation

• How letting go of the “should” can change your relationship with pain
• A simple question you can ask yourself when you’re hurting that may help you suffer less

This episode is especially for anyone navigating disappointment, uncertainty, loss, failure, difficult relationships, or other experiences that simply don’t feel the way they should.

We’ll explore the difference between pain and suffering, and how accepting reality doesn’t mean approving of it, giving up, or failing to take action. Sometimes, accepting what has already happened is what gives us the most freedom and best ability to decide what to do next.

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