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Must In-Laws Be Outlaws?

Must In-Laws Be Outlaws?

By: Cathy Riva Bloomgarden
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Ever wondered what could happen if we stopped being right and started being open?

Must In-Laws Be Outlaws? is a playful, honest, and surprisingly heartfelt podcast hosted by a mother-in-law, Lucette Bloomgarden and daughter-in-law, Cathy Riva Bloomgarden, who didn't exactly start out as best friends. In fact, if you met them in the early days, you might have politely wondered how they would ever share a holiday table - let alone a microphone. This podcast is the story of how two women navigated misunderstanding, judgement, hurt feelings and unspoken expectations... and chose a different ending and how you can too. Instead of remaining "outlaws" in each other's lives, they leaned into curiosity, compassion, humor, and radical honesty - and slowly transformed a strained relationship into one rooted in respect, trust and genuine friendship. This podcast is for anyone who has struggled in any kind of a relationship whether with family, in-laws, friends or even themselves.

Each episode blends real-life stories, thoughtful reflection, and laugh-out-loud moments as they explore what it actually takes to soften a guarded heart, find forgiveness, and build meaningful connection - especially with someone you didn't choose but are deeply connected to. From awkward beginnings and emotional landmines to breakthroughs, boundaries, and unexpected joy, nothing is off-limits.

With insight, humor, and lived wisdom from two generations, this podcast offers a refreshing perspective on how relationships can evolve when we listen differently, speak honestly, and choose connection over conflict. Expect warmth, wit, a few hard truths, and plenty of laughter- because healing doesn't have to be heavy, and growth can be joyful.

Come curious. Leave lighter. And discover that sometimes, the most unexpected relationships can become the most meaningful ones.

Find us on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/mustinlawsbeoutlaws

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Episodes
  • When Divorce Happens Does The In-Law Relationship Have to End?

    When Divorce Happens Does The In-Law Relationship Have to End?
    14 Oct 2026

    This episode explores the dynamics of in-law relationships after a marriage ends, emphasizing that these relationships can continue positively with the right approach. The hosts share personal stories, practical advice, and insights on maintaining family bonds beyond divorce.

    Key Topics

    • Impact of divorce on in-law relationships
    • Personal stories of family bonds after divorce
    • Strategies for maintaining positive relationships with in-laws
    • The role of forgiveness and understanding in family dynamics
    • The importance of non-judgmental communication and boundaries
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    28 min
  • Permission to Be Brave, Play, and Grow: How Investing In Yourself Helps Every Relationship

    Permission to Be Brave, Play, and Grow: How Investing In Yourself Helps Every Relationship
    7 Oct 2026

    Permission to Be Brave, Play, and Grow

    Finding Your Voice: An investment into the most important relationship - with yourself.

    Plus a preview of new song by Cathy Riva "Let's Go Play".

    This episode is for any adult—especially parents and people entering a new chapter of life—who want to try something unfamiliar, reconnect with their identity beyond their roles, or find the courage to follow a creative curiosity. It may also resonate with anyone working to build a more understanding relationship with their in-laws.

    The conversation centers on Cathy’s year long new hobby, writing and recording an album as a way to invest in herself, find courage, and explore who she is beyond family and work roles. It also touches on the trust and mutual change that helped a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law build a close relationship.

    Cathy's Album is out on all platforms of music November 19th.

    What would you like to give yourself permission to do next or What are you already doing that invokes Play?
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    29 min
  • Who Gets The Holidays? The In-Law Tradition Problem

    Who Gets The Holidays? The In-Law Tradition Problem
    30 Sep 2026

    When you marry someone, you don't just marry a person. You marry their traditions, too.

    In this episode, Cathy and Lucette explore the nuances of family traditions, relationships, and the importance of inclusiveness and communication in building strong bonds across cultural and generational lines.

    key topics

    • The role of family traditions in bonding and conflict
    • How to handle cultural differences in family celebrations
    • The importance of communication and flexibility in relationships
    • Stories of family traditions and their significance
    • Strategies for inclusiveness and understanding in family dynamics

    keywordsfamily traditions, relationships, inclusiveness, communication, cultural differences, mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, holiday customs, family bonding
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    26 min
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