You think of yourself as the doer, responsible for making life unfold as you want, yet nearly everything that makes your life possible happens outside your control. Your heart beats, your breath flows, and events throughout the universe unfold without you doing a thing. The fact is, you are simply aware of the tiny portion of life passing before you. When you get caught clinging to pleasant experiences or resisting painful ones, you hold impressions in the mind that build a false sense of self. A wise person participates in life without demanding that everything conform to their preferences. Consciousness is then free to expand beyond the small sense of “I am the doer.”

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Pleasurable experiences can open you and awaken a beautiful flow of energy, but if that energy flow depends on particular conditions, it will fade over time. That does not mean you have to reject love, success, or other positive experiences; you can enjoy them, learn from them, and let them pass without clinging. When you stop closing your heart whenever life differs from your expectations, you become open to the unconditional well-being that was within you all along.

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You are not your heart or mind but the conscious being who is experiencing them. Psychological disturbance results from resisting uncomfortable experiences and storing those impressions inside. Rather than asking the disturbed mind to solve the problems it created, learn through meditation and daily practice to step back, allow thoughts and feelings to pass through, and become comfortable with temporary discomfort. By practicing with life’s small frustrations and gradually embracing greater challenges, you clear the mind, open the heart, and discover that you can peacefully handle whatever reality brings.

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