I mean this in the nicest way possible… I miss being more excited about life.

This week, RAM gets vulnerable about something he never expected to miss: the relentlessly optimistic, unapologetically enthusiastic version of himself.

Once known for being the positive bitch in every room, RAM wonders whether the pandemic, life's disappointments, and the world's growing cynicism have slowly chipped away at his natural zest for life.

From wanting to channel his inner Dolly Parton and Pollyanna to learning how to protect his peace without shutting out joy, RAM reflects on emotional resilience, romanticizing everyday moments, and refusing to let negativity become a personality trait.

Because life is too short to simply exist, pay bills, and expect the worst.

Sometimes, getting excited about life again means remembering how to let the good in.

Because the kindest thing you can do… is be real.

I mean this in the nicest way possible… protect your peace.

This week, RAM is talking about something he's exceptionally good at: cutting people TF off.

From emotional safety and one-sided relationships to passive-aggressive behavior, uncomfortable conversations, and the importance of reciprocity, RAM gets candid about why he's become increasingly selective about who gets access to his life.

But here's the thing: cutting someone off doesn't automatically make them a villain. Sometimes people simply become incompatible, and choosing distance doesn't mean choosing bitterness.

RAM explains why shared history, love, and even family ties aren't enough to justify relationships that consistently leave you feeling unsupported, unheard, or emotionally drained.

Because protecting your peace isn't about punishing other people. It's about knowing when to communicate, when to set boundaries, and when to walk away.

Because the kindest thing you can do… is be real.

I mean this in the nicest way possible… your sexual pleasure is not a character flaw.

This week, a ridiculous tweet about masturbation sends RAM down a rabbit hole about sexuality, shame, and society’s obsession with policing other people’s pleasure.

From the stigma surrounding self-pleasure to the disturbing allegations involving Jane Doe and the Cornell 7, RAM gets candid about sexual freedom, consent, victim-blaming, and why someone’s willingness to explore their sexuality should never be mistaken for permission to violate their boundaries.

Why are we so quick to judge someone’s sexual choices instead of questioning whether their consent was respected?

RAM argues that sexual liberation isn't about how adventurous you are. It's about having the freedom to say yes, say no, and change your mind without shame.

Because the kindest thing you can do… is be real.