In ministry, life fills up fast—and without a clear priority order, what matters most quietly gets pushed aside. In this episode, we walk through a framework every ministry couple needs: Jesus first, your marriage second, your kids third, then ministry to others. Getting this sequence right isn't about doing less—it's about leading from a life that's actually grounded and sustainable. Check out the article: How Should a Christian Leader Order Their Priorities?

1. Matthew 22:37-38 (NIV) — The greatest commandment: love God with everything you have, putting him above all else.
2. Matthew 6:33 (NIV) — "Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness"—an active pursuit that shapes your schedule and energy.
3. Ephesians 5:22-25 (NIV) — The marriage model of total, sacrificial commitment that doesn't hold anything back.
4. Proverbs 22:6 (NIV) — "Start children off on the way they should go"—rooted in faithful, consistent parenting over time.
5. Ephesians 6:4 (NIV) — Raise your children in the training and instruction of the Lord without exasperating them.

1. Jesus comes first: Your devotional life shapes everything else—treat your quiet time as non-negotiable and protect it weekly.
2. Your marriage is second: Your spouse isn't your ministry's support role—they're your most important partner. Check with them before committing to anything new.
3. Your kids come before ministry: Your presence shapes their faith more than any lesson or sermon. Protect family time by default.
4. Decide in advance: Good intentions don't protect priorities—map out your week together and set clear limits on ministry commitments.
5. Build guardrails: You don't have to answer your phone at dinner or bedtime. Protecting those moments is stewardship, not selfishness.

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