Heard - Not Agreed With
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Heard - Not Agreed With
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Ever notice the people who make you feel closest to you aren't necessarily the ones who agree with everything you say — they're the ones who actually hear you?
This week I'm talking about what it really means to feel heard instead of just agreed with, why a little friction in a relationship isn't something to avoid, and how the "do to me, I do to you" transactional trap — yes, we're talking Hatfields and McCoys — can quietly take over even the relationships we care about most.
I also share a personal story about my father, and why waiting until someone is gone to finally acknowledge them is a mistake none of us have to make.
Quote of the Week
"You can disagree without being disagreeable."
— Ruth Bader Ginsburg, U.S. Supreme Court Justice
Citations
- Covey, S.R., The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Habit 5: "Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood"; also: "Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.")
- Ginsburg, R.B., widely attributed public remarks — "You can disagree without being disagreeable."
Let’s go, let’s get it done.
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