In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Elle's husband M just four weeks postpartum to unpack a birth story that took a wild, unexpected turn. From using a vibrator to trigger contractions to an intense, emotional delivery that led to a complete mindset shift, nothing went as planned. They dive into the raw reality of postpartum healing, libido shifts, and what happens to your sex life after baby number two. It’s messy, vulnerable, and brutally honest in the way only they can be.

Chapters

Why Did Elle Bring A Clit Sucking Vibrator During Labor? (00:00)

When Labor Begins But Won’t Progress And The Moment Everything Got Overwhelming (8:17)

C Sections, Pushing And Shitting (18:43)

Fisted In The Delivery (26:10)

The Circumcision Debate And Body Autonomy (32:56 )

Vasectomy Talk And Semen Retention (40:00)

Future Sex As Parents And Kink Aspirations In 3 Months And In 1 Year (45:59)

How Do Elle And Vee Stay Connected In Their Relationship? (54:47)

Rapid Fire Questions: (58:50)

-- Who Is Hornier Right Now?

-- Who Has Cried More This Week?

-- Most Unhinged Thought?

-- Weirdest Thing That Turned You On Recently Even If You Didn't Act On It?

-- One Thing You Miss That Isn’t Sex?

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This week Elle and Vee chat with Aviva (aka Leora) about the raw and unexpected intersection of parenting, tantra, and kink. They explore how divorce became a gateway to self-discovery, pleasure, and reclaiming personal power—while unpacking how core principles of kink and tantra (like attunement, boundaries, and presence) can actually enhance the way we parent. The conversation weaves through emotional regulation, dominance vs. control, and finding pleasure in everyday parenting moments. It’s a provocative look at what becomes possible when parents stop separating their desires from their role as caregivers.

Investing in Pleasure: A Path to Self-Discovery. (00:00)

The Intersection of Parenthood and Kink. (05:04)

Finding Playfulness in Parenting. (10:08)

Navigating Emotions: Parenting and Kink Dynamics. (15:02)

The Role of Attunement in Parenting and Kink. (19:48)

Gentle Parenting vs. Authoritative Parenting. (25:02)

Testing Boundaries: The Nature of Child and Sub Behavior. (30:27)

Authoritative Parenting: Balancing Love and Discipline. (33:20)

Holding Space for Big Feelings: Emotional Regulation in Parenting. (36:55)

Sensory Play: Connecting Through Touch and Presence. (41:15)

Kink and Parenting: Embracing Playfulness in Raising Children. (50:48)

Emotional Intelligence: Teaching Kids to Navigate Feelings. (57:41)

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Aviva's Links:

Instagram: @aviva.aurora

Websites:

Coaching - healinginservice.com

Acroyoga - yogaintimacy.com

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This week, Vee and Elle go deep with Catherine Drysdale — a dating and intimacy expert who accidentally stepped into her power as a mommy dom and never looked back. She breaks down the truth behind dominance that no one talks about: it’s not about pain, it’s about presence, boundaries, and knowing exactly what you want. We get into service subs, pleasure-first dynamics, and why she refuses to center men’s pleasure in her sex life. From making men clean her apartment to teaching women how to access confidence through their own bodies, this episode is a full permission slip to be selfish in the bedroom. If you’ve ever wondered what it looks like to own your desire unapologetically, this is it.

Chapters

Meet The Woman With 72 Orgasms And Zero Tolerance For Bullshit (00:00)

What Is Mommy Domming And First Sub Who Showed Up And Started Cleaning Her Apartment (2:33)

Why Boundaries Make Kink Safer And Hotter (07:56)

When Dominance Turns Into Abuse And How To Spot The Difference (10:58)

Maybe You Are Already a Mommy Dom And How Confidence Is The Real Kink No One Talks About (18:51)

Where To Start: Follow Along With NLP Technique For Rewiring Your Brain For Confidence And Desire (28:01)

Follow Along With EFT Tapping (34:41)

Constructing A Scene: Blindfolds Tip And Working On Asking For What You Want (42:09)

Praise Vs Humiliation (47:53)

The Kink BDSM Test That Will Change Your Sex Life (52:07)

I’m Too Nice To Be A Dom… Or Am I? Tips To Get Started (55:40)

Soft Limit Vs Hard Limits (01:02:15)

Overidentifying With A Role Can Limit Exploration (01:07:15)

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Guest Info Catherine Drysdale
Dating & Intimacy Expert | Columbia-trained Clinical Psychology Graduate Student
Instagram: @iamcatherinedrysdale
TikTok: @iamcatherinedrysdale

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