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From Heartbreak to Healing Podcast

From Heartbreak to Healing Podcast

De : Sandy Falter
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The mission of From Heartbreak to Healing is to walk alongside women who have experienced divorce, loss, or other heartbreak, offering faith-filled encouragement, practical tools, and hope for the journey. Through honest conversations and proven healing practices, this podcast helps women release pain, embrace peace, and step into a joy-filled life of love, purpose, and possibility.Copyright 2026 Sandy Falter Développement personnel Relations Réussite personnelle Sciences sociales Spiritualité
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  • 3 R's to Emotional Regulation - Recognize, Release, Restore

    3 R's to Emotional Regulation - Recognize, Release, Restore
    Sep 19 2026

    This episode we talk about emotional regulation. The 3 R's - Recognize and name the emotion you are feeling, Release the emotion, and Restore your energy.
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    6 min
  • How do I get out of victim mindset when you have been a victim of betrayal, divorce, or abuse?

    How do I get out of victim mindset when you have been a victim of betrayal, divorce, or abuse?
    Oct 23 2025
    Episode 2: Being a victim, victim mindset, and how to be empowered to rebuild your life.Free resources: coach.sandfalter.comTranscript:Have you felt broken after divorce or other heartbreak? Are you looking for hope, inspiration, and tools to help you heal? Then you've come to the right place. Welcome to from Heartbreak to Healing podcast. I'm Sandy Falter, a certified grief coach, mom and grandma, my own journey of loss. Once left, my heart shattered, but God met me in the brokenness and step by step I learned how to rebuild a beautiful joy filled life.Now I'm here to walk with you. Each week you'll hear encouragement, practical tools, and hope to remind you that even in the heart of seasons healing is possible and your best days are still ahead.Hi friends, welcome back to From Heartbreak to Healing podcast. I'm Sandy Falter and I'm glad you're here with me today.Are you struggling to move forward with your life after divorce? Struggling to let go of the past and what happened to you In our first episode, I shared a little bit about my story going from those shattering moments of loss to hope and being able to rebuild my life. Today we're going to talk about being a victim, victim mindset, and how to be empowered to rebuild your life.When I experienced betrayal in my marriage, I felt like a victim, and honestly, I was. Betrayal cuts deep.It leaves you. Shocked, devastated, and powerless. We need to be careful not to ruminate and stay in this space where we get trapped in a victim mindset.For me, the problem wasn't the feeling I was having it was that I went from a very justified pity party to a victim mindset.I was thinking in absolute terms. I would say things like, "I will never be happy again."But let's be clear, being a victim is not the same thing as having victim mindset.Victim mindset is when we believe that everything is happening to us and we have no power or control.It's that voice that says,Nothing ever works out for me. I'll never heal.This always happens to me. It's thinking and speaking in absolutes.It's understandable,But if we stay in this space of blaming and ruminating about the past, we get stuck in these negative emotions of fear, blame, shame, and despair.We also might start to feel entitled and self-absorbed. Sometimes with victim mindset, people get learned helplessness and their expectations change of what others "should" do for them because of what has happened to them. We give up our power. This is not a happy place to live, and those emotions are heavy and draining.When we have a victim mindset, we're focused on the past and what has happened to us, and often blame and comparison are the roadblock to our growth and progress.But the good news is when we can elevate our emotions, we can feel connection and joy again.Every emotion that we feel sends signals throughout our body, sending neurotransmitters and hormones that affect the way we feel.We don't want to live in this space of these negative emotions with all the effects they have on our body. Let's talk about what we can do.How do we keep from spiraling into a victim mindset after divorce or when we have become a victim? Every spring I have to clean my decks and my balconies. I live in the Pacific Northwest, and after a year there is a lot of moss that accumulates. When we moved into this house almost two decades ago, my home was full. My husband and I had six children living here, and it was awesome and busy and wonderful.But you know the saying, many hands make light work. Well, on this particular Saturday, I was out by myself scrubbing and picking the moss out of the boards of my decking.So as I scrubbed on my hands and knees, my thoughts started to spiral,And soon I was wallowing in emotions of anger and despair and resentment.There I was headed towards that victim mindset again. I have to tell you, Satan loves to keep us in this head space. He doesn't want us to feel joy and peace and enlightenment, all those wonderful, yummy emotions that make us feel good and help us connect with others.He wants to keep us in shame and fear and keep us from feeling God's love for us,But God's ways are higher. He wants to elevate us. He wants to bless us with joy and goodness.So as I was scrubbing and spiraling in these negative emotions, having my pity party, I realized what was happening. I caught myself and I stopped. I stood up. I dropped my scrub brush and said, "not today."I knew what was happening and I needed to stop that pattern.I took control.I knew I had done the work to live an empowered life, and I wasn't going to play victim.So instead of letting these feelings control me, I took control and I started to think of all the things I was grateful for.It took me all day to finish that job, and as I worked, my joy increased as I thought about all the things that I am blessed with, all that I'm grateful for. I have a strong body. I have this beautiful home that I have been able to continue to live in. So many great memories...
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    10 min
  • Introduction. Hope, healing, and a way forward after heartbreak. Episode 1

    Introduction. Hope, healing, and a way forward after heartbreak. Episode 1
    Sep 6 2025

    Welcome to From Heartbreak to Healing Podcast.

    Have you felt broken after divorce or other heartbreak? Are you looking for hope, inspiration, and tools to help you heal? Then you have come to the right place. Welcome to From Heartbreak to Healing Podcast. I’m Sandy Falter, a certified grief coach, mom, and grandma. My own journey of loss once left my heart shattered—but God met me in the brokenness, and step by step I learned how to rebuild a beautiful, joy-filled life. Now, I’m here to walk with you. Each week, you’ll hear encouragement, practical tools, and hope to remind you that even in the hardest seasons, healing is possible—and your best days are still ahead.

    Sandy shares her grief and heartbreak and healing journey.

    For free resources, go to coach.sandyfalter.com

    Sand to Glass - a poem by Sandy Falter

    I used to be a rock. I was a solid foundation for others to crumble on, to rest on, to build on, to push off from, to feel, and I just stood solid.

    Rock can build foundations, but it can also build barriers.

    Because of some horrible experiences beginning in my childhood, I started to build walls of protection from further pain. I didn’t allow myself to be vulnerable - which also meant I couldn’t truly grow. I was stuck. It’s not easy to change rock. The process is brutal, painful.

    Then the worst storm of my life hit. Far more tragic than anything I had ever experienced and it pulverized the rock. Broken in pieces.

    But the rock became sand. Now I am sand.

    Sand is vulnerable and changes. Sand is pleasant and comforting. Sand cannot hold everyone up but has to rely on others to be strong.

    Sand can be transformed. Sand can become glass!

    Transparent and reflective. Vulnerable. Refined. Glass reflects light. Glass protects and provides safety from the elements.

    Glass is needed and desired. Glass is versatile and useful.

    Glass is exquisitely beautiful!

    I was a rock. Now I am sand.

    I am being transformed into beautiful glass.

    For more information and free resources and grief coaching after heartbreak, go to sandyfalter.com
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    7 min
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