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Find Love With Emily

Find Love With Emily

By: Emily Bucknell
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Welcome to Find Love With Emily, the podcast for successful, single women in their 30s and 40s, exhausted by dating and wondering why love’s so hard to find.

If you’ve tried all the dating advice; trying harder, swiping more, fixing yourself or “not looking”, and it still hasn’t worked, this podcast explains why.

Each episode breaks down how love really happens, the one rule it always follows and why dating has left you scared that maybe love is not meant for you.

This is the end of ridiculous dating games, trying to be the woman men want and hoping your luck changes.

Here, dating finally makes sense and real, lasting love becomes possible again.

Subscribe to Find Love With Emily for weekly episodes that cut through the usual dating BS and get to the root of what makes love inevitable.© 2026 null All Rights Reserved. Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Why Love Is Still Very Possible For You | DATING DECODED 1/4

    Why Love Is Still Very Possible For You | DATING DECODED 1/4
    14 Oct 2026
    📝 Get The Dating Debrief workbook when you officially sign up for Dating Decoded HERE.If you’re single over 30 and you’ve reached the point where you genuinely don’t know what else you’re supposed to do to find love...Start here 🎧Maybe you’ve tried the dating apps.Deleted them.Downloaded them again because… how else are you supposed to meet someone?Maybe you’ve spent years trying to be more open-minded, less picky, more feminine, less anxiously attached, more detached, better at dating, better at choosing men.And still you’re getting the same thing.Talking stages that go nowhere.First dates that never become second dates.Emotionally unavailable men.Situationships.Men who seem genuinely interested and then suddenly announce they’re “not ready for a relationship.”Or maybe it’s been months, even years, since anything has happened at all.After long enough, it’s almost impossible not to start wondering whether love is actually going to happen for you.This first episode of Dating Decoded is where we change that.Because there is a reason finding love has felt so much harder than it seems like it should be.And it has NOTHING to do with your age, men, or because you haven’t tried hard enough, put yourself out there enough or finally found the perfect dating strategy.There’s something much more fundamental that most dating advice completely misses.It took me almost 13 years of being single, heartbreak, dating apps, terrible advice, trying to make myself more attractive to men and one particularly devastating dating experience before I finally started asking a completely different question.Not:How do I get better at dating?But:How does love actually happen?That question changed everything.Within weeks of dating again, my experience with men was almost unrecognisable.I was meeting lovely men, going on multiple dates a week and actually enjoying dating.Four weeks later, I met the fiercely loyal, loving, genuine and kind man I've now been married to for almost 9 years.In episode 1/4 of this series, I'm walking you through the shift that started it all... and why the fact that dating hasn’t worked for you yet does not mean love isn’t going to.In fact, once you understand what’s really been happening, your entire experience of finding love starts to make a whole lot more sense.And this is only the beginning...👉 DATING DECODED:Over 1400 women have listened to this 4-part audio series and finally understand why dating hasn't worked and how simple love really is. Available for a LIMITED TIME FOR FREE here on the Find Love With Emily podcast. You'll learn:✅ Why dating hasn't worked for you → it's NOT you, men, apps, where you live or dating in 2026 🙌 It's that you've been following dating advice that has nothing to do with how love actually happens.✅ The biggest mistake single women 30+ make when dating doesn't work → when finding love feels hopeless, most women do MORE of what's not working. I made this mistake for 13 YEARS!!!✅ Why other women find love so easily and it's such a struggle for you → it's not your looks, personality, age, attachment style, luck or how in your "feminine energy" you are.✅ How love ACTUALLY happens → you won't find this in regular dating advice (which is why so much of it hasn't worked for you). This is how I met my husband in ONLY 4 WEEKS 😮💥👩‍❤️‍👨✅ 📝THE DATING DEBRIEF: A personalized and honest breakdown of exactly why love has been so hard for you to find → which unlocks what to do to change that...FAST! ✅ Simple steps that skip the dating BS and attract love fast → no more wasted time on advice that pushes love away 🫸❤️These steps are how I've helped 100s of women find love!✅ BONUS: A small but mighty practice that helps you let go of all the fear, stress and desperation dating has left you carrying, so you can start fresh with LOVE.FINALLY 🙌 understand why you're still single and how to easily change that.📝 Get The Dating Debrief workbook when you officially sign up for Dating Decoded HERE. 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the simple, step-by-step proven process, tools and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love inside: ATTRACT YOUR MANJoin Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man💌 You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily
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    21 min
  • The Reset | DATING DECODED BONUS

    The Reset | DATING DECODED BONUS
    14 Oct 2026

    👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the simple, step-by-step proven process, tools and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love inside:


    ATTRACT YOUR MAN


    Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man


    If you've been single for YEARS, and you're just so bloody tired of how hard, disappointing and heartbreaking finding love has been...


    Of getting your hopes up about a man, only to be let down AGAIN.

    Watching everyone around you fall in love, get married, have babies, while you're still wondering when the hell it's going to be your turn.

    And carrying around this awful fear that maybe it never will be.


    Then I have something pretty bloody special for you ❤️


    Because I know how much you want to just be DONE with all of this.


    To finally feel excited about love again, to believe it's going to happen for you, and to stop feeling like being single is this enormous weight you're carrying around everywhere you go.


    And that's exactly why I've given you The Reset, a beautiful guided practice taken straight from the first week of Attract YOUR Man.

    This isn't another episode where I'm going to talk to you about finding love.


    You're going to actually DO something you've needed to do for yourself for a very, VERY long time.


    This is where you finally put down all the heartbreak, disappointment, fear and heaviness that have built up over YEARS of dating that hasn't worked.


    And feel what it's like to be free from all of that.

    To have a fresh start with love, instead of dragging everything that's happened until now into whatever happens next.


    If you're ready for finding love to be an entirely different experience from here, press play now.


    Find yourself somewhere quiet and comfortable, and give yourself this time.


    There's so much relief waiting for you ❤️

    👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the simple, step-by-step proven process, tools and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love inside:


    ATTRACT YOUR MAN


    Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man



    💌 You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily
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    14 min
  • The Dating Debrief Part 2 | DATING DECODED 4/4

    The Dating Debrief Part 2 | DATING DECODED 4/4
    14 Oct 2026
    👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the simple, step-by-step proven process, tools and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love inside: ATTRACT YOUR MANJoin Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man📝 Get The Dating Debrief workbook when you officially sign up for Dating Decoded HERE. If you're absolutely CONVINCED that there aren't any decent men left, that it's impossible to meet anyone, that dating never works for you, or that love will always be hard for you...Because after 5+ years of being single, disappointing dates, heartbreak and watching everyone else find love, you've got more than enough evidence that these things are TRUE.Then this final episode of Dating Decoded is an absolute MUST listen.Because what if the things you're so certain are true about dating, men and finding love are the very things that have been keeping you single all this time?!The most frustrating part being that you haven't realized how this has been happening in the background all this time....which is exactly why you can want love more than anyone, follow all the dating advice, put yourself out there, go on date after date after date, and STILLLL end up with more of the same dating BS.While actually meeting a genuine, loving man, having a real relationship and building a life together only feels more and more out of reach.In episode 4/4 of Dating Decoded, we're getting into the second exercise of The Dating Debrief.Where you'll see for yourself, in black and white, just how much what you believe to be TRUE has been working AGAINST love.And why changing your experience of dating and finding love might be a whole lot simpler than you ever imagined... and something you actually control.If you're DONE with more of the same dating BS and want love to finally happen for you, there's NO getting around this.Luckily though, this is what makes finding love a whole lot simpler!👉 DATING DECODED:Over 1400 women have listened to this 4-part audio series and finally understand why dating hasn't worked and how simple love really is. Available for a LIMITED TIME FOR FREE here on the Find Love With Emily podcast. You'll learn:✅ Why dating hasn't worked for you → it's NOT you, men, apps, where you live or dating in 2026 🙌 It's that you've been following dating advice that has nothing to do with how love actually happens.✅ The biggest mistake single women 30+ make when dating doesn't work → when finding love feels hopeless, most women do MORE of what's not working. I made this mistake for 13 YEARS!!!✅ Why other women find love so easily and it's such a struggle for you → it's not your looks, personality, age, attachment style, luck or how in your "feminine energy" you are.✅ How love ACTUALLY happens → you won't find this in regular dating advice (which is why so much of it hasn't worked for you). This is how I met my husband in ONLY 4 WEEKS 😮💥👩‍❤️‍👨✅ 📝THE DATING DEBRIEF: A personalized and honest breakdown of exactly why love has been so hard for you to find → which unlocks what to do to change that...FAST! ✅ Simple steps that skip the dating BS and attract love fast → no more wasted time on advice that pushes love away 🫸❤️These steps are how I've helped 100s of women find love!✅ BONUS: A small but mighty practice that helps you let go of all the fear, stress and desperation dating has left you carrying, so you can start fresh with LOVE.FINALLY 🙌 understand why you're still single and how to easily change that.📝 Get The Dating Debrief workbook when you officially sign up for Dating Decoded HERE. 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the simple, step-by-step proven process, tools and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love inside: ATTRACT YOUR MANJoin Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man💌 You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily
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    25 min
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