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Sober & Lit Podcast

Sober & Lit Podcast

By: Susan Larkin & Ruby Williams
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Are you worried you might be drinking too much? If you’ve tried cutting back your drinking, but can’t imagine your life without wine? This podcast is for you.


Sober & Lit is the podcast for women in midlife who want encouragement, support, and real strategies to live their best life without alcohol. Whether you identify as a gray area drinker, a daily drinker, are exploring how to stop drinking, or are wondering how to know if you even have a drinking problem, this show offers practical tools and honest conversations. In each episode we answer real listeners’ questions about how to stop drinking and how to stay stopped. With sober stories, empowering insights, and practical tips and tactics for living sober with mindfulness, confidence, and joy. If you're ready to explore an alcohol-free lifestyle and step into your most vibrant, “lit” life you're in the right place.


This podcast is for you if you’ve ever asked:

Why can’t I drink like everyone else?

Why do I drink more than I want to?

I had weight loss surgery and why am I drinking every day now?

What is a gray area drinker?

Why can’t I stop drinking once I start?

How can I drink less during stressful times (holidays, divorce, empty nest, grief)

Is it possible to enjoy life without alcohol?

How do I cut back without quitting completely?

What’s the first step to changing my drinking?

How much alcohol is too much for a woman my age?


Every episode ends with how we and our guests feel lit with practices that support your mental health, optimizes your fitness goals and enhances personal growth. If you’re sober-curious, or alcohol-free and ready for your next amazing chapter in life, this podcast is your weekly dose of inspiration, tools, real talk, and some laughs!


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Episodes
  • "I'll Quit Drinking in January" Is the Lie Keeping You Stuck / EP 145
    20 Oct 2026

    "I'll deal with my drinking in January."

    If that thought has already crossed your mind this fall, you're not alone. But here's the twist: that promise might be the very thing keeping you stuck.

    Because 'Future You', the one with all the willpower on January 1st? She's still you.

    In this episode, Ruby Williams, who spent 20 years selling wine before becoming an Alcohol Freedom Mindset Coach, invites you to skip the waiting and start getting curious now. You'll discover:

    • The January Trap: why "I'll start after the holidays" quietly costs you two more months
    • The holiday drinking script: what's really creating the joy around the table (hint: it's not the champagne)
    • The "just one glass" puzzle: why your morning plan rarely survives the second refill
    • The Holiday Curiosity Experiment: three simple steps you can try at your very next party
    • The one question that could change how you walk into the new year

    No labels. No forever decisions. No rock bottom required.

    Just one invitation: what if your fresh start didn't have to wait?

    🧡 Sign up the Alcohol Freedom Academy wail list now!
    https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/thank-you-afa-waitlist

    We Love Hearing From You

    Take the "Worried About Your Drinking" quiz:
    https://coachingwithruby.com/quiz

    Don't forget to follow and subscribe and leave a review! It helps to get the word out that living sober is lit!

    Listeners have said that our podcast has helped them get alcohol free!
    Join our private community!

    Connect with the Podcast Host:
    Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching
    Website: https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/
    Email Ruby: ruby.williams@freedomrenegadecoaching.com
    Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching
    🧡 I invite you to book a clarity call with me and let's chat: https://calendly.com/williams-ruby/discovery-call

    Looking for Susan's new podcast?
    Drink Less With Susan Podcast: https://drinklesswithsusan.buzzsprout.com/

    It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological adv...

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    30 min
  • Not Too Old, Not Too Late: Alcohol Freedom in Midlife / EP 144
    13 Oct 2026

    What if the best chapter of your life hasn’t even started yet?

    Whether you’re in your 40s, 50s, 60s, or 70s, maybe you’re not winding down. Maybe you’re just getting going.

    Maybe you’re here because:

    • The kids have flown the nest
    • You’re starting over after a divorce
    • You’ve spent decades looking after everyone else, building a career, or trying to get your health back
    • Somewhere along the way, alcohol took up more space than you ever meant it to

    So let me ask you: are you really living the life you want, or have you quietly drifted to the sidelines?

    Today I’m sharing:

    • A bit of my own story
    • Who I want to help in this next chapter
    • Why it’s never too late to change your drinking, or your life

    I’m Ruby Williams, your host of Sober & Lit, where we make alcohol small and life BIG. Step into the arena of life!

    Let’s get Lit from the Inside! 🔥

    We Love Hearing From You

    Take the "Worried About Your Drinking" quiz:
    https://coachingwithruby.com/quiz

    Don't forget to follow and subscribe and leave a review! It helps to get the word out that living sober is lit!

    Listeners have said that our podcast has helped them get alcohol free!
    Join our private community!

    Connect with the Podcast Host:
    Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching
    Website: https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/
    Email Ruby: ruby.williams@freedomrenegadecoaching.com
    Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching

    Looking for Susan's new podcast?
    Drink Less With Susan Podcast: https://drinklesswithsusan.buzzsprout.com/

    It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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    26 min
  • The Sober & Lit Plot Twist We Didn’t Expect / EP 143
    6 Oct 2026

    After 143 episodes... Sober & Lit is changing.

    Today, we're turning back the clock...

    ✨ The moments that changed us
    ✨ The guests we'll never forget
    ✨ The laughs and behind-the-scenes memories
    ✨ What three years of talking about alcohol freedom taught us
    ✨ And why we're now choosing two different roads

    You'll hear what's next for Susan...

    What's next for me... [spoiler: I'll be back next week as the solo host]

    And, yes... what's next for Sober & Lit.

    Because this isn't really a goodbye.

    It's about having the courage to hear that little voice saying...

    “It's time for something new.”

    Welcome to Sober & Lit with host Ruby Williams 🧡
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    Episodes We Mentioned & Resources
    • EP 31... Weight Loss Surgery and Alcohol
    • EP 52... Live Naked with Annie Grace
    • EP 33... Childless Not By Choice with Maureen Benkovich
    • EP 128... How Anxiety Accelerates Alcohol Use Disorder
    • EP 107... Sobriety Made Social with Chris Marshall
    • EP 142... 20 Years Sober with Alysse Bryson

    Drink Less With Susan Podcast: https://drinklesswithsusan.buzzsprout.com/

    We Love Hearing From You

    Don't forget to follow and subscribe and leave a review! It helps to get the word out that living sober is lit!

    Listeners have said that our podcast has helped them get alcohol free!
    Join our private community!

    Connect with the Podcast Hosts:
    Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com
    Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

    Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusan
    Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching

    It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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    36 min
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