The Concept of the Week is social comparison theory: the idea, from Leon Festinger, that we judge much of what matters to us against other people. Peter explains the games in which people would rather take £10 while their opponent gets £5 than take £10 while their opponent gets £20, and suggests the real question is where we get our goals from. It also gives the show a new name for its tip segment: the Psych Hack. Before that, Hilary and Peter compare notes on the clock change, William Willett's angry pamphlet The Waste of Daylight, and the spelling reformers who wanted "wot" and "hoo".
The first headline: the father who shot dead the 16 year old gunman at Silver Rail Elementary School in Bend, Oregon, where three children and a teacher were killed, has spoken about the moment he called his mum. Hilary asks what makes someone run towards danger. Peter's answer is that we are social animals, and cooperation is built into us. They talk about survivor's guilt, about Jacinda Ardern's refusal to name the Christchurch killer, and about notoriety as a motive. Peter's view is that disaffection, revenge and a wish for notoriety exist in every society, and the variable that decides how many people die is easy access to guns. Hilary brings in the history of the NRA and research from Columbia University on the reasons behind mass shootings, and asks what can be done to help boys and young men.
The second headline is Bryan Johnson, the tech multimillionaire who is trying to live forever, and The Telegraph's line that he isn't entirely sure why. Hilary asks whether he is adding years to his life but not meaning. Peter talks about memento mori, whether he would want to be a vampire, why the brain is the part of the body least likely to keep up, and why he'd rather bet on a pension than on Bryan Johnson's secret of eternal life. Hilary recalls the myth of Tithonus, granted eternal life without eternal youth.
The third headline is cash in the attic: a retired decorator's Pokémon cards, bought for his son and left in the loft for about fifteen years, sold for £1.56 million. Peter thinks collecting for profit is a lottery, and tells a story that doesn't show him in a good light about a painting in a friend's flat. Hilary takes in Logan Paul's Pikachu Illustrator, sold to AJ Scaramucci in February, and asks whether buying something for its future value gives the same reward as collecting for love. Peter remembers holding a copy of the Malleus Maleficarum in the library at Liverpool, and describes his box of small things worth nothing to anyone else.
The Psych Hack: before you do something, ask whether you would do it just for you. Try doing something nice and telling nobody. No photo, no post.
To finish, a look ahead to this week's Budget: Hilary on India's rural work guarantee, Peter on universal basic income and social care.
A note before you listen. This episode discusses a school shooting in which three children and a teacher were killed, gun violence, survivor's guilt, depression and abuse.
Mentioned in this episode
- Social comparison theory, from Leon Festinger (1954): Wikipedia
- The Columbia Mass Murder Database and mental illness: Columbia Psychiatry
- Bryan Johnson's Telegraph interview, reported: ThePrint
- The Surrey attic Pokémon collection: Malay Mail
- Logan Paul's Pikachu Illustrator sale: ABC7
- Confessions, anonymously: Fesshole
- Universal basic income: Wikipedia