In this episode, Morgan sits down with songwriter, author, and betrayal trauma advocate Evelyn Reed to talk about how music became her lifeline after discovery and disclosure. Evelyn shares how she turned her journals into songs, releasing multiple albums that trace the ups and downs of recovery, from the raw anger of “Shatterversary” to the hope in “Shattered Still Standing.” She also opens up about receiving an ADHD diagnosis during her healing journey and how understanding her “beautiful brain” freed her from years of shame, gave her busy mind a place to focus, and helped her reclaim her voice. Her song “You Are Never Broken” speaks to anyone navigating the overlap of betrayal trauma and neurodivergence.

Morgan and Evelyn also explore a decision many families face: whether to tell the children. Evelyn explains why she and her husband chose not to disclose to their four adult children, how she distinguishes privacy from secrecy, and what it’s like to carry that choice. Together they discuss the role of intention in disclosure, what signs a parent might watch for in their kids, and why there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Evelyn’s song “I Was There Too” honors the children who live through a parent’s betrayal, a message that deeply resonated with Morgan. The episode closes with a reminder that healing isn’t linear, and that it’s always okay to grieve, lean on others, and ask for help.

About Evelyn Reed

Evelyn Reed is an author, songwriter, and betrayal-trauma advocate who transforms lived experience into words and music for those navigating the aftermath of relational betrayal. She is the author of Shattered Vows and Find Yourself After Betrayal workbook and has created an expanding catalog of music exploring grief, anger, identity, self-worth, resilience, and healing.

Evelyn’s work speaks openly about the realities of betrayal trauma including the questions and emotions that can be difficult to say out loud and the long, nonlinear process of finding yourself again. Rather than focusing solely on saving or leaving a relationship, her work centers on something equally important: learning to trust your own voice and refusing to abandon yourself in the process.

Evelyn writes under a pen name to protect her family’s privacy while creating a space where betrayed partners can feel seen, understood, and less alone.

Learn more at EvelynReedBooks.com

Email: evelynreed.author@gmail.com

Instagram: @evelynreed.author

Website: EvelynReedBooks.com

YouTube: Evelyn Reed

Books: Available on Amazon under Evelyn Reed

Music: Available on Spotify, Apple Music, YouTube Music, and other major streaming platforms.

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Morgan Ellsworth is a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (LAMFT) and Board Certified Coach (BCC) with advanced training in trauma-informed care. She is certified through APSATS as a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist Associate (CCPS-A) and Certified Partner Coach (CPC) and works with individuals and families impacted by betrayal trauma.

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