In this episode, Hillary is joined by her sister Bella (a 3/5 Manifesting Generator) for a real conversation about identity, change, and letting go.

They unpack why people stay stuck waiting for clarity to feel obvious, why resistance is often a sign you are close to the thing that will change you, and why aligned action is only half the equation if your nervous system cannot hold what you are calling in.

Hillary also shares her practice for shifting from autopilot to conscious creation in real time (without bypassing what you feel), plus a grounded take on money as life force, expanding your capacity to receive, and how intuition and strategy are meant to work together.

In this episode, you will learn

• How to follow the call before it makes logical sense
• Why investing in yourself can be the moment things become real
• The difference between aligned action and embodied capacity
• What “certainty” actually means (and why it creates safety)
• How to reframe challenges as invitations that grow you
• Why intuition is strategic and how it informs business decisions
• The P.O.W.E.R practice: Pause, Opportunity, Witness, Embody, Respond

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Timestamps

02:05 How Designed As You began: following what you are drawn to
03:20 How Hillary followed the first thread (even when it wasn’t obvious)
08:10 The turning point: investing and committing to the path
13:00 Shame, doubt and being “in the unknown”
17:10 Why you cannot see the full vision yet and why that’s normal
20:40 The missing piece: your nervous system must be able to hold it
26:10 Certainty: trusting how it unfolds, not controlling outcomes
31:40 Reframing challenges: meaning, perspective and frequency
38:10 When life gets louder: the universe pushing you toward truth
44:30 Practical tools for mindset change (the “why” excavation)
49:20 Micro moments: catching embarrassment and meeting it with love
54:20 Success without fulfilment: force, hustle and the cost
1:00:10 Money as life force and expanding your capacity to receive
1:06:30 Intuition and strategy: why they are not separate
1:11:10 Evolving identity and the friction before expansion
1:14:40 The P.O.W.E.R practice walkthrough
1:18:30 Closing reflections and what to practise this week

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In this deeply embodied and expansive conversation, I’m joined by Davina, energy worker, retreat facilitator and founder of The Upgrade, for a conversation that goes far beyond mindset and into the body, the womb, the nervous system and the truth of what real self-healing actually looks like.

This episode is an invitation to stop living life as a “floating head” and start listening to the intelligence of your body.

Davina shares her powerful journey from anxiety, suppression and disconnection to full embodiment and energetic sovereignty. We explore how emotion lives in the body, why suppressing feelings keeps us stuck and how learning to sit with sensation rather than avoid it becomes one of the most liberating practices a woman can access.

We speak about somatic processing, generational healing, throat and womb energy, and why the work isn’t about fixing yourself but remembering who you were before conditioning taught you to disconnect.

This conversation is raw, honest and deeply activating. It’s for women who are tired of intellectualising healing and are ready to feel, move and embody their life force instead.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why so many people live disconnected from their bodies and stuck in their minds
• How anxiety, grief and emotion actually want to move through the body
• What happens when you stop distracting yourself and choose to sit in sensation
• The link between the throat, the womb and suppressed truth
• How somatic processing prevents trauma from being stored in the body
• Self-forgiveness and compassion for past versions of yourself
• Why healing doesn’t need to make sense to be effective
• The power of pleasure, receiving and nervous system safety
• How embodiment changes relationships, work and self-worth
• Why investing in yourself ripples out to heal generations
• The difference between forcing growth and allowing expansion
• How following intuition creates an unfuckwithable inner stability

This episode is a reminder that your body is not the problem — it’s the portal.

Healing doesn’t come from doing more.
It comes from feeling more, trusting more and allowing energy to move.

If you’ve ever felt afraid of your emotions, disconnected from your power or unsure how to truly come home to yourself, this conversation is for you.

Connect with Davina:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davvyxx/?hl=en
Website: https://www.theupgradebydavina.com/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1ptaTRN53bk1YUplV2FcPG?utm_medium=share&utm_source=linktree

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In this episode, Hillary shares a special conversation with Tina Boss, as they explore the moments that feel like coincidence but are anything but, the way life places breadcrumbs and invitations in front of you, and what it really looks like to begin again in business, in purpose and in self-trust.

This is a raw and expansive dialogue about the duality of growth: the excitement and the fear, the momentum and the overwhelm, the certainty and the doubt. Hilary speaks to the reality that transformation does not arrive as one brave leap, but as a series of small steps that build safety in the nervous system and rebuild trust with your intuition.

You will also hear Hilary share parts of her story she has not spoken about on the podcast before, including what it actually took to leave law, how misalignment can show up as burnout and health symptoms, and why deconditioning is less about becoming someone new and more about carving away everything you are not.

This conversation is for anyone who can feel something calling them, but keeps getting caught in the mind’s fear, perfectionism or the belief that they are behind.

In this episode, you’ll hear

• Why Hilary believes nothing is random and how “synchronicities” are often divine breadcrumbs
• The “bridge of events” and how life moves you toward what’s meant for you without logic
• How the mind tries to talk you out of the very thing your intuition is pulling you toward
• A grounded look at burnout: when it is misalignment, not lack of capacity
• How different energy types can experience expansion, effort and sustainability differently
• Conditioning: how we learn who to be to feel loved, safe and successful, and how it shapes decisions
• Deconditioning as “unbecoming” and the Michelangelo metaphor of setting the angel free
• Triggers as teachers: the moment you realise a reaction is showing you where you are not free
• Why change is rarely overnight and what “small steps of courage” actually looks like
• The role of nervous system safety, community and support when you’re making a life shift
• Forgiveness, shame and the choice to stop reliving the past through self-judgement
• Why you cannot be behind on your path and why the right time is always now
• A powerful reminder: open-hearted people are needed, resourced and meant to receive abundance too

This conversation is a gentle reminder that the signs are always there. Life is constantly guiding us home. When we slow down enough to listen, we realise that every step, even the hard ones, is part of something meaningful.

Listen to Tina's Podcast: https://www.breatheempowerevolve.au/podcast

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