Dr. Kristal Vance spent nearly 30 years in health and wellness, seeing 40 to 50 chiropractic patients a day — and found herself at around 300 pounds. What finally worked wasn't more willpower, and it wasn't the shortcut she tried in secret first.

Kristal shares why she stopped chasing the scale, how accountability did what willpower never could, and why she sold her practice to build an online community she says has grown to nearly 80,000 members — then realized she'd built it on a platform she didn't own.

What you'll learn:

- Why the scale is the wrong scoreboard

- The 80/20 rule that makes healthy habits stick

- Why knowledge isn't the problem: accountability is

- How to hold your standards without alienating your people

- Why building on a platform you don't own is a business risk

Chapters:

0:00 She treated 40 patients a day and hit 300 pounds

2:07 Thirty years in health, and her own health was slipping

4:07 Taking care of everyone but herself

6:19 Why she stopped trusting the scale

7:22 Whole food and the 80/20 rule

9:16 Knowledge isn't the problem — accountability is

11:14 When your old friends don't fit anymore

14:02 How to filter health advice: "check the fruit"

16:43 The reunion comment that changed everything

21:12 Why willpower failed — and the end of all-or-nothing

22:46 Outgrowing a marriage and a practice

25:12 Selling the practice and going online

26:52 Why so many chiropractors become entrepreneurs

28:38 Walking out of the victim mindset

32:55 Keeping your standards without losing your people

36:23 Why "challenge" scares people off

39:19 The platform risk she didn't see coming

43:09 Getting your family on the same page

47:48 Fifteen clients, a turnkey program, and building assets

53:16 Nobody to blame but you

59:23 Advice for busy business owners

1:02:46 Bonus: the worst advice she ever took

Connect with Dr. Kristal Vance:

Website: https://drkristalvance.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrKristalVanceDC

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This conversation is for general information and reflects the personal experience of the guest. It isn't medical advice — talk with your own healthcare provider before making changes to your health routine.

Winning as an entrepreneur requires more than just grit; it demands a clear understanding of what success actually looks like.

Rob Fajardo, founder of Leave Normal Behind, joins us to discuss the reality of building a business from the ground up. We break down the internal shifts needed to move past early struggles, like eviction and instability, and how to align your daily actions with your ultimate destination. This conversation is for anyone who feels stuck in the grind and needs a fresh perspective on what it takes to find real traction.

Success mindset is often misunderstood as a simple positive attitude, but true growth comes from the discipline to keep moving when things are hard. We look at the specific habits Rob used to transition from sleeping on couches to working alongside high-level entrepreneurs. If you are ready to stop just surviving and start building, this breakdown will help you clarify your path forward.

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Chapters
00:00 — Meet Rob Fajardo: Defining What Winning Looks Like
07:35 — From Achievement to Impact, Integrity, and Inner Joy
13:40 — Leave Normal Behind: Finding Purpose and Building a Vision
19:22 — Resilience Through Setbacks: Eviction, Risk, and Resourcefulness
24:21 — Solution-Oriented Thinking and Learning From Others’ Mistakes
28:12 — How to Find Mentors: Ask for the Work, Not a Handout
38:23 — Creating Content That Educates, Entertains, and Builds Trust
48:46 — Authenticity, Consistency, and the Lighthouse Strategy
55:55 — AI, Deepfakes, and the Need for Trustworthy Content
63:02 — A Practical Starting Point for Business Content
65:26 — The Worst Advice: Boundaries, Self-Advocacy, and Choosing Your Life
73:24 — Closing Thoughts and Where to Connect With Rob


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The conversation explores the journey of Trey O'Brien, an Army veteran who transitioned to civilian life, focusing on themes of personal fulfillment, the role of ego, and the integration of AI in business. Trey shares insights on managing expectations in client relationships and the importance of autonomy and self-discovery after military service. The conversation explores the importance of self-awareness, effective communication, and the role of storytelling in business. Trey O'Brien shares insights on managing client expectations, the dynamics of working with a partner, and the journey of self-discovery through service to others.

Takeaways

• Ego can be a tool
• Transitioning from military to civilian life requires self-discovery Self-awareness drives effective communication
• Storytelling enhances business connections

Chapters

• 00:00 From Military to Fatherhood
• 09:46 Finding Fulfillment After Service
• 19:49 Managing Expectations in Business
• 29:55 Ego: Fuel or Enemy?
• 34:30 Understanding Self for Better Communication
• 36:11 Setting Expectations in Business
• 38:56 The Investment of Client Retention
• 40:40 Embracing Diversity of Thought
• 43:30 Cultural Perspectives and Personal Growth
• 44:45 Navigating Business with a Partner
• 49:37 Discovering Personal Superpowers
• 55:50 The Power of Storytelling in Business
• 01:01:03 Connecting Through Authentic Stories
• 01:10:13 Finding Fulfillment in Service