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Conversations in the Dark with Erica Vander Sande

Conversations in the Dark with Erica Vander Sande

By: Erica Vander Sande
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There are the things we say in the daylight. And then there are the things we only admit in the dark.


Conversations in the Dark is a podcast about the thoughts, questions, ambitions, and uncomfortable truths we don’t always know how to say out loud.

Hosted by Erica Vander Sande—entrepreneur, marketing agency owner, mom, and intuitive—this show goes into the places where business, motherhood, money, ambition, grief, spirituality, AI, and identity collide.


Some conversations will be deeply personal. Some will challenge the way we’ve been taught to work, lead, parent, and define success. And some might make you think, Wait…are we allowed to say that?

That’s probably the point.


Because the conversations we whisper to our closest friends, think about at 2 a.m., or aren’t quite ready to say in the daylight are often the ones most worth having.


No perfectly packaged answers. No pretending we’ve figured it all out. Just honest conversations about building businesses, raising humans, becoming ourselves—and questioning the rules along the way.


The dark is just where the conversation begins.

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Episodes
  • Creating the Vision & Mission
    28 Oct 2026
    Conversations in the Dark, Episode 7: Creating the Mission and Vision

    Erica Vander Sande on rewriting The Mina Company's vision, mission, and purpose, and building a business around the life you actually want.


    Episode Summary

    When was the last time you looked at your business's vision, mission, and purpose? Erica realized it had been about four years since The Mina Company's were written, and after everything that has changed in her life and business since, it was time for a refresh.

    She opens with the Theodore Roosevelt "man in the arena" quote that hangs in her hallway, adapted for women, and explains why daring greatly sits at the core of who she is. From there, she walks through the new vision, mission, and purpose she wrote for Mina, how each one differs from the others, and how she is bringing them to life with her team through real, everyday decisions like turning off ads that aren't working and never billing for work that wasn't done.

    Erica also shares how her business was designed around her life from day one, including being at school pickup at 3:00, and encourages listeners to find their own guiding light by paying attention to what makes them jealous or a little sweaty with possibility.


    What We Cover
    • Why revisit your vision, mission, and purpose. Erica explains what changed after four years of growth and why she wanted to stand behind her words again.
    • The arena quote. Why Roosevelt's words, adapted for women, hang in her hallway and shape how she leads.
    • Vision, mission, and purpose, explained simply. The world you are working toward, how you get there, and how you deliver it day to day.
    • Mina's new statements. The full thinking behind Erica's choices, including the line about acting in a client's best interest even when it costs the agency.
    • Making values real. Concrete examples, like not working with competing clients, honest reporting, and keeping the human element as AI changes everything else.
    • Designing a business around your life. How Erica built Mina to support school pickup, time freedom, and a team that can run without her.
    • Finding your own. A simple starting point: notice what triggers your jealousy or inspires you, write it down, and build from there.


    Connect with Erica
    • Business inquiries: The Mina Company
    • Personal connection and coaching: Erica Vander Sande


    Show Notes Keywords

    Conversations in the Dark podcast, Erica Vander Sande, vision mission and purpose, business values, daring greatly, women in business, marketing agency leadership, intuitive strategy, building a business around your life, The Mina Company


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    30 min
  • The Season Of Letting Go
    21 Oct 2026
    Conversations in the Dark, Episode 6: The Season of Letting Go

    Erica Vander Sande on pivoting with AI, handing worry over to God, and learning when to step in and when to stay stepped out.

    Episode Summary

    Erica opens this episode with a picture that has been on her heart: a giant, roaring river carving through the landscape, and everyone she knows being carried along by the rapids. Clients, team members, her kids, her husband, her friends. It feels like we are all being asked to let go of something at the same time.

    For Erica, a big part of that is AI. After seven and a half years of running The Mina Company, she is modernizing how her agency works almost daily, which means some services, processes, and even some revenue may need to go. She loves the challenge, but she is honest about the unsteadiness it brings, and about how not everyone on her team feels the same way.

    From there the episode gets personal and practical. Erica shares how she makes business decisions through daily meditation and conversations with God, including a very real debate over a spare office desk. She talks about letting go at home too, like the night her daughter came home with a disappointing history test grade and Erica chose not to spiral. She also walks through the energetic box and backpack visualization she uses to hand off anxiety, shame, and dread, and what stepping into a leadership season looks like when you are done doing everything yourself.

    What We Cover
    • A world in the rapids. Erica explains why this season feels like everyone is being forced to pivot at once, and why letting go is a muscle that gets stronger with practice.
    • AI and the shaking ground. How constant change in the digital world is pushing Erica to rethink services, processes, and revenue at The Mina Company, and why she is loving the challenge even when it is unsettling.
    • Settling the ground for her team. Erica talks about her role as a leader in helping people who do not thrive on change feel steady while things are shifting.
    • Business meetings with God. How Erica uses meditation and daily conversations with her higher power to make decisions, including whether to keep paying for an empty desk heading into Q4.
    • Trusting intuition over AI. Why Erica relies on gut feelings and spiritual guidance for the big calls, like when to hire and when to slow down, even while using AI for so much else.
    • Letting go at home. Erica shares the story of her fifth grade daughter's history test, and how choosing not to make it about herself turned a stressful moment into a simple plan.
    • The energetic box and backpack. The visualization Erica uses to hand over anxiety, dread, and shame, and why she calls it one of the most freeing things she does.
    • Letting your team lead. What it looks like to watch someone else own a task, make mistakes, and fix them, and how Erica decides when to step back in.
    • Becoming the student again. Erica shares why she wants a peer group of women who are further along in business and AI, and why she is choosing to be a learner in this season instead of the guide.
    • Honest friends are gold. A short story about a sales email she almost took seriously, and the friend who set her straight in one sentence.
    • Is this a peace worthy mission? Erica leaves listeners with a simple filter for decisions: lead with peace, and go wrestle with whatever feels off.
    Connect with Erica
    • Business inquiries: The Mina Company
    • Personal connection and coaching: Erica Vander Sande
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    34 min
  • Do It Scared
    14 Oct 2026
    Episode Summary

    Erica is a few weeks into the school year, navigating a new schedule with two kids in sports five days a week and not enough time to go home in between. In the middle of that chaos, her youngest daughter, seven years old and a spicy ADHDer, got moved up from the beginner jujitsu class to the 7 to 13 age group and completely fell apart in the car on the way to her first class.

    What started as a parenting story turns into one of the more useful reframes Erica has offered on the show. She walks through the heart to heart she had with her daughter in that car, about the gap between deciding to grow and actually feeling ready, and why that in between stage is supposed to feel awful. Erica connects it back to her own biggest leaps, a home birth, starting a business eight months pregnant, running that business through her mom's death, and makes the case that bravery was never about feeling confident. It was about doing the thing scared anyway.

    The episode closes with a funny, honest twist: the exact thing her daughter was most afraid of actually happened a few classes later, and what it looked like to get through it anyway.

    What We Cover
    • A packed fall schedule. Erica talks about the reality of sports five days a week, long gaps between school and practice, and choosing to be the one who absorbs her kids' after school meltdowns instead of outsourcing that time.
    • Why she still shows up for pickup. Erica explains why she built her business around being able to pick her kids up from school, and what she gets out of those raw first 20 minutes in the car.
    • The jujitsu meltdown. A full breakdown of her daughter's spiral before her first class in the older kids group, and what was actually underneath the tears.
    • The gap between deciding and doing. Erica names the specific, uncomfortable in between stage that comes after you commit to growth but before you feel any momentum, and why so many people quit right there.
    • Bravery is not confidence. Erica revisits her own biggest leaps, a home birth, launching Mina eight months pregnant, and running her business through her mother's death, to make the point that she never felt ready for any of them.
    • Do it scared. Why waiting to feel brave before taking action gets the order backward, and what it actually looks like to move forward without the crystal ball.
    • When the worst case scenario shows up anyway. The moment her daughter's biggest fear about jujitsu came true in class, and what it taught both of them about resilience.
    Memorable Moment

    Erica describes the exact image of growth: a tiny two or three inch window of time between deciding to do something hard and actually feeling momentum, where your inner voice is doing everything it can to talk you out of it.

    Connect with Erica
    • Business inquiries: The Mina Company
    • Personal connection and coaching: Erica Vander Sande
    Show Notes Keywords

    Conversations in the Dark podcast, Erica Vander Sande, do it scared, parenting an ADHD child, kids and sports anxiety, growth mindset for moms, overcoming fear of failure, raising confident daughters, entrepreneur bravery, jujitsu for kids

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    If this episode gave you the push you needed, leave a review or share it with someone standing in that scary in between space right now. New episodes of Conversations in the Dark are on the way. Subscribe so you don't miss what's next.

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    22 min
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