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Club Sandwich

Club Sandwich

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The Sandwich Generation finally gets the conversation we deserve.

Club Sandwich is the community for those caring for ageing parents while juggling work, kids, relationships, and sanity. This is your tribe when family doesn't get it - or just isn't enough.

Hosted by veteran broadcaster Sarah Macdonald, Club Sandwich features clinical psychologists instead of life coaches, GPs instead of gratitude journals, and honest conversations about the relief-guilt paradox nobody else will touch.

Episodes include:
🔧 This Week's Hack - Actionable strategy you can use today
💌 Listener Letter - Real questions from Clubbers like you
🔥 Hot Mess Moments - Stories that make you feel less alone

🛠️ What We're Using - Resources and tools that actually help

Meet the regular Clubbers:

Melissa Reader - CEO of Vera aged care platform (vera.guide) and expert on Australia's ageing crisis and system failures.

Dr. Jo Lamble - Clinical psychologist specializing in guilt, family dynamics, and the impossible decisions when every option has a cost.

Dr. Ginny Mansberg - GP and women's health advocate who tells it straight about what caregiving does to your body.

Dr. Stephanie Ward - Geriatrician and consulting expert for ABC's Old People's Home for 4 Year Olds, helping you understand when "old" becomes a crisis—and when it doesn't.

Kerry Milligan - Gogglebox Australia star bringing humor, honesty, and hard-won perspective to impossible family situations.

No bubble baths. No bullshit. Just expert-led, community-first support for people who don't need another thing to feel bad about not doing.

Club Sandwich is more than a podcast - it's a movement. Join our private Facebook community, attend live events across Australia, and access free downloadable resources with every episode.

New episodes every Thursday.

Visit clubsandwich.community to join the tribe.

Topics covered: Caregiver guilt, sibling conflict, dementia care, financial planning, legal issues, family boundaries, burnout prevention, end-of-life decisions, self-care that actually works, navigating aged care systems, and the emotional toll of caring for ageing parents.

Credits

Club Sandwich is brought to you by Vera, helping families caring for ageing parents navigate this stage of life — so you don't have to do it alone.

Sarah Macdonald - Host + Executive Producer

Melissa Reader - Commissioning Editor, Executive Producer + Clubber

Rachel Fountain - Executive Producer

Audio + video edits by Fountain Media Group

Thanks and kudos to Sean Wayland for our awesome theme music Club Sandwich - hear more from Sean at seanwayland.com

2026 Vera
Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Will I age like my parent? Dr Norman Swan on the brain cliff, dementia and looking after yourself | Club Sandwich
    21 Oct 2026

    Worried about your parent's brain? And your own?

    If you are looking after an ageing parent, you have probably wondered whether you will go the same way. Sarah talks to the ABC's Norman Swan, physician, broadcaster and author of 'The Brain Cliff', about what he has learned from the research and from a life of reporting on health.

    Ageing parents? You've got them. We've got you.

    JOIN THE CLUB: Visit clubsandwich.community to join the tribe, access resources, and find our private Facebook community.
    SEND US YOUR QUESTION: hello@clubsandwich.community

    In this episode:
    The Conversation: Norman says the fear of falling off a brain cliff into dementia is common, and that the cliff and how bright you are are two separate things.

    - Norman on his own parents, and what it was like to be a sandwich generation son from the other side of the world.
    - Why Norman says the brain cliff is only about a quarter genetic, and what that means if your parent has dementia.
    - Brain change rather than brain ageing, and the idea of scaffolding in the brain.
    - Why a busy, complicated life can train your brain, and why stress and rumination are different things.
    - The kind of stress Norman calls toxic: feeling that other people are running your life.
    - Why letting your mind wander and doing nothing are good for you.
    - Norman on dementia risk, which he says is falling in Australia at any given age.
    - Alcohol, supplements and hormones: what he found, and what he has changed in his own life.
    - Why looking after yourself comes first, and why unloading some of the work is a good thing.

    This episode is general information, not medical advice. Talk to your doctor about your own health.

    Credits:
    Club Sandwich is brought to you by Vera, helping families caring for ageing parents navigate this stage of life so you don't have to do it alone.

    Check out 'Put The Kettle On' – Vera's free conversation guide: the five questions worth asking your ageing mum or dad, at putthekettleon.com.au

    Credits:
    Sarah Macdonald – Host + Executive Producer
    Melissa Reader – Commissioning Editor, Executive Producer + Clubber
    Justin McArthur – Executive Producer + Editor, for P. Zinner Podcasts (https://pzinner.com.au)
    Thanks and kudos to Sean Wayland for our theme music Club Sandwich — hear more at https://seanwayland.com

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    35 min
  • The first national count of Australia's 'sandwich generation' | Stand Up and Be Counted with Melissa Reader | Club Sandwich
    14 Oct 2026

    How many people are in the sandwich generation? Until today, nobody knew.

    The number: 2.43 million people aged 35–70 currently help or care for an ageing parent. This number is expected to rise to over 6 million within 10 years.

    In this episode, Sarah Macdonald is joined by Melissa Reader (CEO of Vera and Commissioning Editor of Club Sandwich) to discuss Vera's new, nationally representative research conducted in partnership with YouGov. They explain why this group has been missing from major reports, and explore knock-on effects for carers' work and finances.

    "People often aren't counting themselves," says Sarah. "They're not counting the labour of love they do as labour; they're seeing it as love. But if you can get help in that labour, then you've got more time to love."

    Ageing parents? You've got them. We've got you.

    Vera is your candid companion as you care for an ageing parent. Have a look at https://vera.guide.

    FACES (Families for Aged Care Equity and Support) is a family-led campaign asking for one honest count of the number of people waiting for their aged care funding and the people who die while they're waiting. Add your name at vera.guide/faces.

    Put The Kettle On — Vera's free conversation guide: the five questions worth asking your ageing mum or dad, at putthekettleon.com.au

    Credits:
    Sarah Macdonald – Host + Executive Producer
    Melissa Reader – Commissioning Editor, Executive Producer + Clubber
    Justin McArthur – Executive Producer + Editor, for P. Zinner Podcasts (https://pzinner.com.au)
    Thanks and kudos to Sean Wayland for our theme music Club Sandwich — hear more at https://seanwayland.com

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    36 min
  • Making the 'invisible army' seen | Carer's Week with Melissa Reader | Club Sandwich
    11 Oct 2026

    In this bonus episode, Sarah Macdonald is joined by Melissa Reader to discuss new research into Australia's 'invisible army' of sandwich generation carers.

    Ageing parents? You've got them. We've got you.

    Vera is your candid companion as you care for an ageing parent. Have a look at https://vera.guide.

    FACES (Families for Aged Care Equity and Support) is a family-led campaign asking for one honest count of the number of people waiting for their aged care funding and the people who die while they're waiting. Add your name at vera.guide/faces.

    Put The Kettle On — Vera's free conversation guide: the five questions worth asking your ageing mum or dad, at putthekettleon.com.au

    Credits:
    Sarah Macdonald – Host + Executive Producer
    Melissa Reader – Commissioning Editor, Executive Producer + Clubber
    Justin McArthur – Executive Producer + Editor, for P. Zinner Podcasts (https://pzinner.com.au)
    Thanks and kudos to Sean Wayland for our theme music Club Sandwich — hear more at https://seanwayland.com

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    11 min
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