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A Man Isn't A Plan

A Man Isn't A Plan

By: Hannah Haller & Janne Robinson
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Summary

A man can be a part of your plan, just don’t make him all of it. Velveteen rabbit style real and raw conversations about being a woman on dharma and on purpose.

Hannah Haller lives on her four-acre off-grid homestead in Hawai'i she bought in cash and built from raw land. Between teaching live-streaming yoga classes, leading retreats, writing a bestselling Substack, and actively building a regenerative farm, she shares with her pup, Pete. Over the past 15 years, Hannah has turned an unconventional life into a multi six-figure business and cult-like following – without ever chasing one.


Janne Robinson wrote her viral poem This Is for the Women Who Don’t Give a Fuck in 2014 a piece that reached millions and became an anthem for women putting themselves on the menu. She is the author of two poetry books This Is for the Women Who Don’t Give a Fuck and There’s Cobwebs on Her Vagina and, as a coach, has helped thousands of people create a life of authentic belonging. Janne has led over 200 purpose sessions and has helped more than 120 women start companies from their gifts. Her work is rooted in one core belief — belonging from anything other than who you are isn’t worth it.


Authors:
Hannah Haller
Janne Robinson

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Episodes
  • 13. Jill of All Trades: Finding Meaning, Following Curiosity & Embracing Every Season of Life | A Man Isn’t a Plan

    13. Jill of All Trades: Finding Meaning, Following Curiosity & Embracing Every Season of Life | A Man Isn’t a Plan
    6 Nov 2026

    What are you living for right now? And has that changed from one chapter of your life to the next?

    In Episode 7 of A Man Isn’t a Plan, Janne Robinson and Hannah S. Haller explore the things that give life meaning, the passions that keep us curious, and how what we want from life can shift as we move through different seasons.

    From travel, relationships, and community to surfing, writing, yoga, farming, and learning new skills, they reflect on the experiences that have shaped them and the freedom that comes from allowing yourself to evolve. They also get into the reality of living off the land, becoming more resourceful, and giving yourself permission to explore interests that don't necessarily fit into one box.

    In this episode, they explore:
    - Finding meaning and discovering what gives you a reason to get up each day
    - How our priorities, passions, and sources of fulfillment change through different life chapters
    - Why curiosity and trying new things can keep us feeling alive and inspired
    - Moving beyond the pressure to be defined by one identity, career, or passion
    - Balancing the things that bring us joy with the things that pay the bills
    - The realities of homesteading and living on the land beyond the romanticized version
    - Learning practical skills, making mistakes, and becoming more self-sufficient
    - Finding empowerment through resourcefulness and figuring things out on your own
    - Giving yourself permission to explore new interests, even when they feel outside your usual path
    - Making space for creativity, personal growth, and whatever comes next
    Janne and Hannah also reflect on their own journeys, from traveling and living abroad to building businesses, relationships, communities, and a life connected to the land. They discuss how every curiosity can lead to something unexpected, and why we don't have to stay the same person we were in the last chapter.

    A question to take with you:

    What are you currently living for? What gives you energy, excitement, and a sense of meaning? And when you look back over the last seven or fourteen years, what were the things that made each chapter of your life feel meaningful?

    Maybe life really is about finding something, over and over again, to live for.

    Remember, a man can absolutely be a part of your plan. Just don't make him all of it.

    Welcome to A Man Isn’t a Plan.

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    Music by Kontraa Music from Pixabay
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    46 min
  • 12. Luke Bateman on Masculinity, Male Silence, Addiction & the Courage to Change

    12. Luke Bateman on Masculinity, Male Silence, Addiction & the Courage to Change
    30 Oct 2026
    What does it mean to be a man in a world that has taught men to hide their emotions, stay silent, and measure their worth by outdated ideas of strength, leadership, and masculinity?In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Janne Robinson and Hannah Haller welcome Luke Bateman, former professional rugby league player, writer, and cultural commentator, to explore how masculinity, shame, and patriarchy shape the way men see themselves, relate to others, and move through the world. Drawing from his own experiences growing up in conservative rural Australia and navigating addiction, depression, and a suicide crisis, Luke shares how his journey toward understanding himself became a broader exploration of the systems and beliefs that influence us all.From the pressure men face to suppress vulnerability to the silence that allows harmful behaviors to continue, this conversation invites us to question what we have been taught about being a man, recognize the cost of emotional repression, and understand why meaningful change begins with awareness, honesty, and accountability.Together, they explore:- How traditional ideas of masculinity teach boys to hide their emotions and fear appearing weak- Why male silence helps sustain patriarchy and allows harmful behaviors to go unchallenged- How shame shapes men's identities, relationships, and willingness to speak honestly- The cultural expectations that associate leadership, strength, and authority with men- Why men may resist questioning systems that benefit them, even when those systems harm others- How addiction, depression, and a personal crisis led Luke to begin questioning his own beliefs- Why the journey toward understanding social inequality can begin with the desire to understand ourselves- How men can learn to speak up against misogyny, sexism, and harmful behavior among their peers- Why systems cannot change unless the people within them change their behaviors- The importance of emotional vulnerability, self-reflection, and being willing to have difficult conversations- How inherited cultural narratives can shape our understanding of gender, power, and human worth- Why leadership and confidence are human qualities rather than exclusively masculine traits- What we can learn from Indigenous and Aboriginal cultures about community, connection, and healthier societies- How personal accountability can become part of a deeper process of growth and change- Why creating more equitable relationships requires both awareness and actionLuke also shares how his journey began with a deeply personal struggle to save his own life. What started as an attempt to understand his own experiences eventually led him to question the cultural narratives surrounding masculinity, privilege, and power. His story offers a reminder that personal growth is not separate from the world around us: the beliefs we challenge within ourselves can influence how we show up in our relationships, communities, and society.This isn't just a conversation about men or masculinity. It's about the invisible rules we inherit, the silence that allows harmful patterns to continue, and the courage it takes to question what we have been taught. It's an invitation for men to move beyond shame and silence, take responsibility for their actions, and help create a world where vulnerability is not weakness and equality is everyone's responsibility.Because real change begins when we stop staying silent, become willing to look honestly at ourselves, and choose to do things differently.*Connect with Luke Bateman*Luke Bateman is a former professional rugby league player who played 71 games for the Canberra Raiders before retiring in 2020. He is now a writer, podcaster, and cultural commentator whose work explores masculinity, identity, emotional vulnerability, and social change. Through his personal experiences and public conversations, Luke encourages people to question harmful cultural narratives and build a more honest understanding of themselves and others.🌐 *Website / Publisher Profile:* https://www.simonandschuster.com.au/authors/Luke-Bateman/243997583📸 *Instagram:* https://www.instagram.com/lukebateman_/🎵 *TikTok — Luke’s Reads:* https://www.tiktok.com/@lukesreads🎙️ *Podcast — In the Good Books with Luke Bateman:* https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/in-the-good-books-with-luke-bateman/id1846478227📚 *Luke Bateman’s Book Club on Fable:* https://fable.co/Visit the website: https://www.amanisntaplan.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amanisntaplan/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Amanisntaplan/61587882744032/Music by Kontraa Music from Pixabay
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    1 hr
  • Breaking Free from Patriarchy: Katie Hendricks on Women, Power & Authenticity

    Breaking Free from Patriarchy: Katie Hendricks on Women, Power & Authenticity
    23 Oct 2026
    What does it mean for a woman to truly own her power, take up space, and live as her full, authentic self in a world that has spent generations telling her who she should be?In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Janne Robinson and Hannah Haller welcome Katie Hendricks, PhD, pioneering expert in body intelligence, conscious loving, and transformational learning, to explore the ways patriarchy shapes women's lives, relationships, bodies, and sense of self. Drawing from more than six decades of observing gender inequality, Katie shares personal stories of growing up in the 1950s, challenging traditional gender roles, and learning to stop making herself smaller to accommodate others.From the hidden rules women are taught about their bodies to the subtle ways sexism shows up in relationships, workplaces, and even modern coaching culture, this conversation invites us to question the beliefs we've inherited and recognize the power we already possess.Together, they explore:- What it was like growing up as a girl in the 1950s and 1960s- How secrecy and shame around women's bodies shaped generations of women- Why women have historically been expected to serve men and make themselves smaller- The ways patriarchy and sexism continue to show up in modern relationships and workplaces- How women can reclaim their voices, boundaries, and physical presence- Why women are often interrupted, dismissed, or denied recognition for their ideas- How to respond when someone speaks over you, diminishes you, or treats you with contempt- The difference between “power over” and “power with,” and why collaboration matters- Why women don't have to sacrifice warmth, kindness, or femininity to be powerful- How women can support one another by amplifying each other's voices and contributions- The importance of men speaking up when they witness sexism and disrespect- How fear and contempt can undermine creativity, connection, and equality- Why humor and play can be powerful tools for challenging the patriarchy- How to recognize the moments when you're making yourself smaller to be accepted- What it means to occupy your full power while embracing your unique gifts and individualityKatie also shares deeply personal stories about becoming a single mother, returning to college, building her own entrepreneurial path, and learning to claim space in her relationship and professional life. Her message is a reminder that our uniqueness isn't a liability to overcome. It's something to celebrate, develop, and bring fully into the world.This isn't just a conversation about feminism. It's about recognizing the invisible rules that shape us, challenging the systems that diminish us, and creating a world where everyone can contribute without having to shrink themselves to belong.Because equality isn't about becoming someone you're not. It's about having the freedom to become more fully who you are.And as Katie reminds us, uniqueness triumphs.Connect with Katie HendricksKatie Hendricks, PhD, is a pioneer in body intelligence, conscious loving, and experiential learning. Since the 1970s, she has developed transformational practices that integrate movement, emotional awareness, and embodied learning to expand people's presence, freedom, and choices. She has co-authored 12 books with her husband, Gay Hendricks, and served as Director of Training for the Hendricks Institute. Her work focuses on the play imperative, the medicine of attention, unlocking the fear code, and cultivating new stories for humanity.🌐 Website: https://www.hendricks.com💛 Foundation for Conscious Living: https://www.foundationforconsciousliving.org📘 Books by Gay Hendricks, including works co-authored with Katie: https://www.amazon.com/Gay-Hendricks/e/B000APFFK0📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hendrickscommunity/📘 Facebook — Relationship Advice: https://www.facebook.com/relationshipadvice💛 Facebook — Foundation for Conscious Living: https://www.facebook.com/fclconnect/💼 Katie Hendricks on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathlyn-katie-hendricks-9395361/💼 The Hendricks Institute on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-hendricks-institute-inc./🎥 YouTube — The Hendricks Institute: https://www.youtube.com/@hendricksinstituteVisit the website: https://www.amanisntaplan.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amanisntaplan/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Amanisntaplan/61587882744032/Music by Kontraa Music from Pixabay
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    1 hr and 2 min
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